Individual responsibility is often given a great deal of emphasis, and this may be particularly true in the United States. Within the US, the individual seen as being self-sufficient is often held up as an example of the highest level of character. People seen as dependant, however, are often scorned and even used as political propaganda. Whether making judgments about individual responsibility is right or wrong, it certainly does happen.
While it's true that responsibility is typically seen as a virtue, most people would put a limit on what a person can reasonably accept responsibility for. For example, most people wouldn't hold someone responsible for an act of nature that destroyed property. Neither would the majority of people likely hold on person responsible for a wide scale famine where lives are lost. In other words, there are usually accepted limits to what one is seen as being responsible for.
The polar opposite, if you will, of individual responsibility is the notion that people don't have an form of responsibility at all. This sort of thinking often presumes that people are merely carrying out an existence that was determined for them by a source power. In this way of looking at life, human beings are just moving along a path that was already chosen for them. This type of thinking isn't especially popular in western culture, and would probably be viewed by the majority of people in western cultures as extremist or irresponsible.
Ho'oponopono is one particular perspective that does embrace the idea of personal responsibility. Ho'oponopono is a method used for problem solving and life enhancement. The method of ho'oponopono has its origins in Hawaii, where the natives have used the form for many generations. A core idea behind ho'oponopono is accepting responsibility for harm caused so that conflict between people may be resolved.
In an updated version of ho'oponopono, the connection is not between people but between an individual and a higher power. In this ho'oponopono form, the individual makes amends for problems within their life. An important aspect of this method is being willing to accept complete responsibility for all the events that an individual comes to experience. There are no exceptions to this idea, as the individual is thought to bring about every event that he or she is aware of or experiences.
This core idea of total responsibility for every aspect of life means some will see ho'oponopono as unrealistic or extreme. Looking at ho'oponopono from this perspective, one could reasonably said it's the complete opposite of the notion that individuals don't have any responsibility to speak of. There is no question that ho'oponopono has its share of critics, but there is an increasingly large number of people who regularly practice ho'oponopono. For these people at least, total responsibility is an acceptable notion.
Decision Making In Life
We think in different ways and our thinking is decided by many factors. Some are known and some are unknown. The known factors are - thinking, circumstances, early upbringing, living style, culture, family support, friends, own intelligence etc. Our thoughts and our mental makeup is also decided by many factors that are yet not known. Two persons of similar upbringing may be facing similar situation, but react in opposite ways? there are so many whys about the human mind that it is very difficult to determine about what may happen.
Coming back to the central question - why are some of us totally demotivated? There is no easy answer. Can anything be done to propel such people towards work? Can one do anything to make them enthusiastitic about anything, so that they begin working towards it?
Take your own example. You are motivated to do one thing, but totally demotivated by something else. A mathematician may get very excited looking at a Math problem, but remain unaffected by the greatest pieces of music? Why? The musician acts exactly opposite, or may get equally excited by maths problem and music. Why? Our mind is a complex structure, about which we ourselves don't know much. How many of us can claim to know about their own mind? They may know about thier abilities and disabilities, their likes and dislikes, etc. but can they predict about their own reaction in a situation? very difficult.
One has to find one's own answers in such situations. One has to reflect himself/herself and decide about the action that can be taken to break the unmotivated state. Friends, family and even medical science can help one to a certain extent, but the final destination has to be reached by the person on his/her own.
If at anytime, you notice that a friend of yours is getting demotivated about life, try to inspire him/her as much as you can. Even if you are physically away from your friend you can send him inspirational ecards and tell him to download motivational screensavers and wallpapers. So motivate everyone who needs the boost.
There comes atime in everyone's life when we all get desperate and feel helpless. One needs friends to guide during such times. Please be such a friend.
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