One story sticks in my mind in particular. This gentleman had ten days in Moscow on a tour. He went to three socials in three days where he had the opportunity to meet about six hundred to one thousand women.
He kept saying over and over, ?They don't hold a candle to the woman I have been corresponding with for nearly a year.? After the socials, he had another six days in Moscow.
He decided to board an overnight train to a city five hundred miles east to meet the woman he had corresponded with for nearly a year.
He returned four days later. When he got back, he was extremely bitter. In his words, she had not turned out to be nearly as attractive as her picture on the website. He spent two days with her ?so I didn't hurt her feelings,? before making his retreat.
In my mind, there are two lessons to be learned her. First, don't fall in love with a picture. The women I met, whose pictures I had first seen on a website, appeared similar in real life to their pictures. Some of them were better looking in real life than their pictures on the internet and some of them, let us say, were not as attractive in person as their glamour photos.
Some people take good pictures and some of them don't. Look at as many pictures of each potential prospect as you can. Ask them to send some recent photos to you. However, don't place all your bets on one photo.
People Change. They gain weight. They get older. Some women send in pictures of themselves five or ten years ago. Some men do that too.
I had professional photographs taken of myself that I sent to women I was seeking a relationship with. One woman commented when we finally met that I didn't look like anything like my picture even though it was taken only six months previously.
The other lesson from the story above is that when you are on a tour you only have so much time that you are there. You need to make the best use of your time.
Going on a four day boondoggle is an incredible waste of time, when time is limited, especially when you are killing extra time with her after you've made the decision that its not working out ?just so you don't hurt her feelings.? When you spend two days with her and don't call her back, you definitely are going to hurt her feelings.
If things aren't working out between you and a woman, the best thing you can do for the both of you is to cut things short. Save both yourself and her some time. It doesn't benefit anyone to spend time with her when things aren't going to go anywhere.
Don't Fall In Love With A Dreamer
How many times have you read about someone who was sucked in by an unscrupulous scammer? Do you want to know how you can avoid being next? Ask yourself: are you about to be scammed? (how do you know which home business opportunities are scams and which ones are not?) It's really very simple, you just need to remember a few basic rules.
Most scams initially sell themselves as home business opportunities. There is an easy way to weed out the more obvious scams from the beginning. Where did they contact you from? Have you signed up to any reputable work from Home business mailing lists? No? Well then, proceed with caution, because if they have nothing to hide they'll contact you through clear channels.
Any offer, no matter how it comes to you, should be considered suspicious if it promises impossible returns. It would be great if we could all make millions working only a few hours a day, but a legitimate business simply doesn't bring riches like this with so little effort. Resist the temptation to think that perhaps this is that one time that the impossible will come true. The only person who will get rich is the scammer.
Now, if a program has passed these two tests, it may be safe to inquire further, but you should still go slowly. What will it take to get started in this business? If you have to pay them money before you get more information, you should be suspicious. If they were reputable, and the scheme actually worked, there would be no harm in explaining the basic program to you before you signed on. There would still be so much to do and learn.
Even if the upfront costs are legitimate, they may be too much for your budget. Some reputable home business require a significant investment in equipment and materials. You need to be sure that you can handle such costs, even if you do not see a return for months, or longer.
You can avoid being scammed if you do your research and give any business opportunity a lot of thought before moving forward. The biggest mistake you can make is to move too quickly, tempted by the promise of big payoffs. Con artists may seem like nice, trustworthy people, but that is the pointit only works if the mark believes the con artist is honest.
It may seem cynical to question everyone and very opportunity. But you have worked hard for everything you have, and you must protect against losing it. Take your time, do your homework, and check out all the options. It's not cynicism, just good common sense.
If you are strict with yourself and always approach any business proposition with a businesslike perspective, and do not let your emotions come into play, you can go a long way towards avoiding being scammed. Don't let scammers get their hands on your cash!
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