How does a guy start seducing women? The issue of effective seduction can be very stressful if you try too hard or if you don't try at all. When a guy tries too hard to seduce women, he will be rejected; if he does not even take the risk, he won't be able to get dates. So what exactly should a regular guy do to begin seducing women?



Start with affection. When you feel affection for a girl, show it and let her know. Do your best to be emotionally available to her and without holding back. When you think about romancing a girl you are conducting the most natural form of seduction and it will show in your actions.

Let your touch linger. If she feels comfortable around you, you can share hugs and hold hands with her. Let your touch linger a few seconds more before you let go. Subtle touching will keep her wondering and soon, she will follow your lead. Physical closeness will encourage sexual tension, the good kind.

Avoid sending mixed signals. Be consistent with your approach. Smile every time you see her. Women in general abhor getting rejected and so, if your girl isn't sure about your feelings for her, she won't risk it.

Stay alert for signs of seduction from her. A woman may also be trying to seduce you but you are too focused trying to learn about seducing women that she's getting frustrated! Seduction is always a two-way street, so perk up, take a look around and notice how girls are trying to woo you as well.

Rely on music to finish the job for you. Buy a good CD and put it on the next time she's in your apartment. Ask her for a "sound tripping" date and prepare a romantic dinner for her. Dress up and do some sexy dancing in your living room. Music will set the mood, will make her feel special and will lower her inhibitions.

Seducing women means seducing her thinking as well as her senses, and this includes her sense of smell. Try not to approach a woman while you're sweaty and smelly. A pleasant smell will activate a certain state of mind that will get her in the mood to make love. Many women don't like cologne and prefer the clean smell of a sporty soap, you can also light scented candles. Women love the scent of lavender, which is a natural relaxant.

Prepare finger foods and get her to feed you. Or prepare dips to go with chips and lick the dripping sauce off each other's fingers. Moving your lips will shift her focus from your eyes to your lips, which has a seductive effect on a woman. Women have playful and active imaginations and playing with your lips on your part will have her start fantasizing about kissing.

My final tip for seducing women requires a lot of privacy and scented oils. Give her a massage and start with her hands. Always be mindful of her mood and comfort level, and stop when she acts like she doesn't want you to go further. However, if you play your cards right, she won't resist a relaxing massage from someone special.