Our homes are a mirror of how we feel about ourselves. Have we invested in this relationship? Do we give thought to our physical environment? The surprising and wonderful thing about when we do invest, our homes give back. They comfort. They wrap their arms around us. Having devoted time and care to this home, we feel good about ourselves. And in turn, we feel nurtured, safe and nested. Our homes are not inanimate. They are alive, as alive as we are.
The more we invest the more we know each other. The more we give. the more receive from our relationship with our home. The maintaining, unlike the first flushes of falling in love, isn't always easy or fun. The falling in love is the hook, the initial impulse, the day to day is the emotional investment.
I write in my new book, Create The Space You Deserve, about love at first sight and my then ugly duckling cottage. Along the way of renovating, I had to check in, ask myself, was I still in love, even with all it's problems? It's like with a new guy. Fall in love is the easy piece. And soon the work begins. The investment. We start to see if this a short term or a long term investment. As things begin to slide, or not be so much fun, we need to remember what brought us here and ultimately reinvest our energy and commitment.
Simple changes. What are some simple changes I can make to come into harmony with me and my home? When I look around what calls out? Flowers. A new pillow for the porch. A new set of sheets springs to mind.
A major me, me, me is shouting at me!!!!!
My garden has been neglected most of the summer for all the reasons. It was so easy when everything was newly planted and landscaped. Late yesterday afternoon, I was feeling a bit blue, so I went outside and got in engaged, reconnected with my yard. I started by weeding, doing the basics. I like weeding. As I got deeper into to it, I ripped out a rose bed area that was pathetic. Went at it! I pulled out the entire planted area that begged to be refreshed. What it wants to be next, I don't know yet. Ideas start to come, the clearing of the old begins to make way for the new. The new will show it's self. I trust this process. I didn't need to know before I started. I just needed to get started.
The emotional and physical investment in our homes creates what they call in the investment world the ROI, return on investment, in feelings of well-being! When we feel well within we are able to go out into the world at large relaxed, balanced while remembering to acknowledge ourselves and our home for this unique relationship.
Falling In Love With You
I have to tell you that I love eating out. I seem to always be on the go for one reason or another. Cooking just feels like a waste of time in most instances as well! I definitely love to eat at chain food restaurants though as I like to know what I will be getting from the experience. I didn't have a good time when I recently ate at an unknown diner while on a shopping trip.
I was shocked when I got a huge platter with more food on it than I normally eat all day. I was also disappointed as the chili was different than what I am used to. Instead of something homemade with green chilies and pork that I get from my local diner, I am sure this particular chili was from a can that they just heated up.
This is the type of scenario that makes a chain restaurant so appealing. You know exactly what you are going to get when you walk in the door. The menu, the portions, and the ingredients are all going to be the same. There is no guessing as to what you will end up with or surprises along the way.
People often have to travel to other locations where they may not be familiar with the restaurants in the area. It can be for personal fun or for business related needs that you are away from home. Eating is just something you will have to do at a restaurant when you are traveling. It can be difficult to know where to go to enjoy a quality meal. Many people will gravitate towards chain locations that they are familiar with the name of.
Most chain restaurants are well aware of this fact. They capitalize on it by offering logos that people easily recognize. A child may not know how to spell McDonald's but I guarantee you that even a two year old knows what those golden arches mean when they see them. People associate the quality experiences they have had at such locations and they are willing to repeat them again and again.
This can really work to the advantage of the owner of such a restaurant. They don't have to prove themselves as a quality place as this has already been established for them. They will also have the right equipment to operate the business and training on the best practices to implement.
If things aren't going well for that chain restaurant name though it can have an adverse affect on everyone. The media tends to swarm over issues about people getting sick eating at a particular chain restaurant, sanitation issues, and special circumstances that come up. The image that the public gets from such information can adversely affect your level of customers.
In theory, you always know what you will get with a chain restaurant. This can be a safe bet and you can get your favorite items. However, you also miss out on the experience of trying new restaurants. You may soon discover some of them are much better than the chain restaurants you have been visiting for years.
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