When a guy first start taking the initial steps in approaching women during the day, the first thing he usually thinks to himself is, "Man, I wish there was a way to approach women in which I can just be myself and never act phony." There is one way to overcome this psychological fear quotient and you also never have to run a routine or phony story with the girl at any time, no matter what kind of environment you are in.



I might have already touched on this same kind of opener before, but I believe that it fits in under the "Fundamentals of Seduction" category a lot better than anywhere else. This little secret is just two words: Genuine Compliment. That's it, nothing more, nothing less. Remember that the keyword here is genuine.

The next time you see a really hot girl walking through a bookstore or a mall, just go up to her with a smile and make her day. This girl does not have to be incredibly hot or anything, but she must have a certain cuteness to her that you honestly have to tell her about.

This could be the way she walks, her skirt that she's wearing or how she has her hair piled on top of her head. Just walk up to her slowly and tell her, "I just had to tell you something...(pause) You have the most perfect hair I've ever seen." Now does that sound phony? It would ONLY if you were being disingenuous about that remark. I have seen some women that really do have incredible hair.

I prefer blond women with nice and natural wavy hair and I always fee compelled to tell the girl that I really like what she is doing with it to keep it that way. But I do not tell a girl she has great hair or anything else unless I feel captivated by the attribute she embodies. That is what keeps this comment to her genuine and not contrived in any way.

QUICK WAYS TO FORCE ATTRACTION ON A GIRL

Since almost 100 percent of the times you tell a girl a genuine compliment results in her thanking you and giving you a smile, you have actually forced the girl to find you attractive, at least on a surface level. But since you have already gotten the ball rolling and it is in your court, now you must cause her to feel as truly attracted to you as you are to her.

This can be achieved by you touching her on her elbow and accepting her thanks by informing her that you are the one that should be thanking her for brightening your day. She will again give you another smile and then you can start a genuine conversation with her that should result in developing true rapport with her for the rest of your interaction with her.