Are you currently involved in a shaky relationship? Are you on the verge of a break-up? Do you love her? If you love her but you see a break up coming in the near future, then you need to spend a few minutes of your valuable time reading the following, as your life could be changed permanantly if you read and apply what I have to say.



First of all, if you love someone, then you have something worth fighting for. Do not give up on your relationship, even if your girlfriend is planning on breaking up with you or if she has given up on you. If you feel that you two are drifting apart, then it is not a time to give up, it is a time to fight harder for the one you love. If you are planning on breaking up with her because you no longer love her, then you do not need to read this.

There are many reasons that a relationship can fall apart. You may be getting really busy and not spending enough time with your girlfriend. Maybe your girlfriend has been too busy and has not been able to spend time with you. Maybe your focus has shifted from your girlfriend to your job. Maybe it is your girlfriend whose focus has shifted. There are thousands of reasons your relationship may be falling apart, and I don't know which one(s) are affecting you, but I do know that if you love her then you need to fight hard to repair your relationship and get your love back.

It doesn't matter what is causing you to see a break-up in the near future, you can overcome it! You know, I have been told a lot that ?It's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?. Well, you could agree with that and dwell on past memories of your relationships, or you could go by my theory that ?It's better to have loved and GAINED than to never have loved at all? So, what is your choice? If you chose the second option, then please continue reading. If not, go on with your life and deal with your relationships like you have been.

Now, I would like to share with you some very basic things that you can do to help your relationship and to get your relationship back on track. Now, of course the effectiveness of these tips will all depend on your situation, as each tip is not beneficial for every situation so please do not get angry with me if these tips do not make your relationship perfect again.

I am going to help you here by telling you a few things that a woman wants in a man. If you can be the man that she wants, she will automatically be attracted to you, and you will be able to have a stronger relationship. So without further ado, here are a few things that women want in a man:

First of all, a women look for much more than good looks, muscular physique and bottomless bank account, unless they are a celebrity and a gold digger, but you know how those relationships turn out. You may be able to first attract the attention of a woman using your good looks, charm, muscular physique and vast amounts of wealth, but you will not be able to sustain a lasting relationship simply based on these qualities. You know that your looks and physique will not last forever, as humans sadly do age and with age good looks and physique always seem to diminish. It is just part of human nature. Also, your money will become obselete to her, so you cannot use your wealth to keep your relationship going. These things are shallow and will not lead to a lasting relationship.

Secondly, a woman is not always thinking about sex! They do not have the same sex drives that males have, and they do not simply want a relationship in order to have sex! Woman want intimacy, and I hate to tell you, but sex does not equal intimacy in a woman's eyes, despite what many males think. Males think that if they are having sex then they have an intimate relationship. Woman have sex in order to try and get the male to become more intimate. This causes a miscommunication and proper communication is one of the most important aspects of a healthy relationship.

Thirdly, women are attracted to men who can stand up for themselves. Men who know how to provide, can stand on their own two feet and are responsible. Immature men, men who can't provide for themselves and men who can't stand up for themselves are not attractive to women and will not endure a lasting, healthy relationship. You need to be able to provide for yourself and stand up for yourself. Be independant! Stand your ground! Be responsible! Don't just follow the crowd and rely on others to do everything for you, unless you want to lose your relationship.

If you understand these three things, it will make a drastic impact on your relationships. If you don't understand these things, then you most likely fail in your attempts at creating long-lasting, healthy relationships.

I learned these tips from a relationship expert by the name of Hillary Hart. In her course Fight For Love, she discusses many other aspects of what women look for in a man, and how you can keep your relationships from falling apart. If you are on the verge of a break-up and you truly love your girlfriend, then please take a look at her course. It completely changed the way I looked at relationships. Check it out here:

http://tinyurl.com/fightforyourlove

Mary Glisan

http://getexbackfightforlove.wordpress.com/