And in many cases normal development happens automatically, but unfortunately this is not always the case.
One of the biggest problems is that parents "assume" development is always normal. And all they must do is love and cherish their baby during these first years.
But hardly ever do parents appreciate just how much they can help their child during these first formative years.
Many do everything they think and believe is in their child's best interest. But they may be overlooking a few important things... simply because they are totally unaware of their importance.
What does this mean?
International research has shown that unnecessarily many children underperform at school. And the important part is... most of the learning problems originate from a lack in development experiences during the child's formative years.
Parents must realize that their child can only perform best if *all* learning experiences were given during the first few formative years.
For example, many school children have trouble reading. They find it difficult to recognize the shapes of different letters and words.
These children find it difficult to organize and process the information their eyes see.
One way of helping them is by teaching them to do different things with their hands while their eyes watch and learn what their hands are doing.
Stated differently? they're learning things they should have learned as babies, but never did. In this case, how to correctly use the information their eyes see.
Parents may therefore be overlooking the importance of ensuring their baby learns the right things at the right time.
What is the easiest way parents can ensure their child develops best?
Here's a two-step process in a nutshell:
Step one, identify the next development experience your baby needs right now.
Children most often have learning and development problems simply because parents don't "know" that the simple, easy-to-do things are really important for complete development.
And since they don't know, their baby is never encouraged to master it.
Step two, make sure your baby gets this learning experience without delay.
Development experiences are most useful when they happen at the right time. Children benefit most when they learn specific skills at certain ages.
There's little point in trying to teach your child to, say, learn colors if she doesn't already have all other qualifying basic skills. Or to teach her to handle a pencil while she cannot crawl properly.
And it is not in your baby's best interest to learn to walk if s/he has not properly mastered crawling and sitting.
Knowing which experiences your baby must master, AND making sure it happens at the right time are the 2 most important things any caring parent can do for their baby right now.
This two-step works.
The next time you wonder about what's best for your baby, remember: next experience-master it, next experience-master it, next experience-master it.
It's the easiest way to ensure your baby develops into a well-performing, fully adapted child.
First Year Baby Development
"My child skipped a baby development stage. She definitely develops fast! She's definitely gifted and will surely do well in years to come."
Every parent likes to believe their child is gifted and look for any sign to confirm their belief.
There is always excitement in a fast developing baby.
But is this observation true? Is it a clear cut sign of above average talent?
What you're hearing is probably based on the worst baby development myth parents believe.
The truth is rather...
Skipping one or more of the baby development stages... or frequently also known as milestones, is definitely no clear-cut sign of superior development.
Few parents realize that the goal is not to speed up their baby's development. It is definitely best for your baby if she properly masters all the milestones and development skills.
Realize that normal baby development is universal and follows the same natural pattern throughout the world.
Every baby follows this same development pattern. And milestones apply to all healthy babies.
That means a baby developing "normally" should master every development milestone within a very specific age range, regardless of where in the world she lives.
And despite what parents like to believe, their baby does not have an unique set of development rules which may explain a faster or unique development pattern.
Few parents realize that each of the development milestones teaches infants particular skills necessary for further progress.
Babies must therefore master all the learning skills for a particular age for best development.
There is very little if anything to be gained by skipping or neglecting any of the vital development experiences.
Many child learning problems happen because parents have specifically neglected certain learning experiences in the hope of fast tracking their child's development.
There's one more very important thing about mastering the baby development stages.
Reaching a milestone isn't just about going through the motions? doing the right things.
Your baby also needs to do it right.
There is a certain quality part necessary to properly master any milestone.
The full learning experience is only gained by properly mastering the skills.
Parents may often say their baby is sitting. But that does not necessarily mean the baby is sitting correctly.
Their baby may in fact be sitting? but only if holding onto another object or if somehow being supported.
The reality is rather that the baby is not able to free her hands to play with a toy or even move her hands from side to side to discover the surroundings.
All important development skills have thus not yet been properly mastered. More stimulation and encouragement is still needed.
What is then the best way parents can overcome the worst baby development stage myth?
Babies gain most when they not only master all skills associated with the different development milestones, but also do it right.
The best any parent can do for their baby is ensuring she does all the things babies do, do them right... and have fun doing so.
Dalene Joubert has sinced written about articles on various topics from Family, Babies and Internet Marketing. Get tips and practical advice to encourage your baby to master the next important learning experience at
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