Flirting is becoming more and more significant every year. Before the 19th century, couples were betrothed (matched up) at early ages and there was no need for flirting.

It wasn't until after the 19th century that men and women started to step out of their community and traditions and it became their job to figure out their relationships. Around the 1950's, men and women started needing to have and develop basic flirting skills.

For decades after this reform, the man and the woman took on new challenges. Women had to learn how to look sexy and weed out the uninteresting men. Men had to take control and approach the women they wanted. The fear of rejection became very real. Now it's plain to see, that the men that know how to flirt become successful with women and the ones who don't, take whatever they can get.

Most importantly, men are not born knowing how to flirt and it's a subject that's evolving and changing throughout time. Right now, I'm going to share the top 5 flirting tips that have been proven to work in the 20th century. Every man that applies these flirting tips will see better results with women.

Flirting is the first step in any intimate relationship. This is what starts the fire and creates the attraction. Most importantly, flirting defines a mans success with women. So let's jump into the top 5 flirting tips for men:

Flirting Tips #1 - Have Physical Connection

You need to start communicating through physical communication. Flirting with physical communication is much more powerful than flirting through verbal communication. The first step, is to touch/grab her hand. I do this by seeing something interesting and then grabbing her hand to get her attention and point it out. Another easy way is if you are in a crowded scene and you move somewhere else, grab her hand and take her there instead of just having her follow. Palm reading also works. When I'm holding her hand, I will gently squeeze it and then toss it away as if she said something that could be offensive in some little way. She will feel that empty void on her hand after that and want to feel it again. You could also playfully slap her hand away if she is grabbing for something.

Once you initiate touch, make sure to let her touch you back to gauge her level of interest. If she responds to your touch, that's a good indicator that she feels you are safe and that she is interested in you.

Flirting Tips #2 - Leave on a high - get her laughing

The ending is the most important part in a conversation - just like it's the most important part in a speech. This is the final impression that sticks in her head.

For example, if you are planning on meeting up, don't end off saying, "ya we will see you then, bye." You want to end off with her laughing. So instead, say something like, "yeah just try not to embarrass me." or "Don't forget to paint your toe nails." or "This is where you say you can't wait to see me and hope you can keep your hands to yourself."

Flirting Tips #3 - Qualify, Qualify, Qualify

Men have a huge problem with this. When we see a woman we want to pursue, we think selling ourselves is going to make her want us. NO, that doesn't work. In fact it does the opposite and takes away the challenge and her desire to pursue you. Basically, we want what we can't have. So make yourself hard to obtain by qualifying her.

You can do this by asking question like, "that's a cool necklace did you get it traveling?" To keep it on the more flirty side you can do what is called roll reversal, "So are you going to ask me out or what?" or "You didn't just tell me you liked hiking to get me to like you, did you?" Whatever you do, realize that you have no idea of what that good looking girl has to offer, so don't treat her like she's a queen, it doesn't make sense.

Flirting Tips #4 - Props

This is a very easy one and it works really well for flirting. First understand that women search for tips on flirting with men 3 times more than men do. It's because women want to flirt with men, but wouldn't know what to say if they approached you. If you were to have something (a prop) to talk about, women would feel much more comfortable approaching you. Remember, when you are talking, you can have a set prop that you can use to be flirty instead of having to shoot into the wind all the time.

You could use a bandanna that hangs out of your pocket or a hat that stands out, a shirt that says something funny, etc. Then if a girl asks about your bandanna you can say, "I don't think you can handle it." Then you can go into a made up story or just say "it's to match my shoes what do you think?"

Flirting Tips #5 - Flirt through texting

Being successful with women is becoming easier and easier for men. Why? Because text messaging and sms text messages have become an integral part in everyday communication. This is a gold mine for men! It gives you time to get the right message (which also improves your real world flirting), and you can interact with more than one woman at once to increase your chances. It's definitely a confidence builder. Most importantly, it cuts out all the attraction triggers that can normally work against you, such as your clothes, smile, breath, hair etc so all you're left with are words and timing. Flirting has never been so easy!

Once you get the right words with the right timing, you can expect a ton of success with women. And since most men fail at flirting in texting, you will stand above the rest and see a lot more women responding desirably to you.