I search the internet all the time to find out what's new in the area of bullying and discovered during one of my searches discovered that there are now bullying games that are available to deal with this serious problem that we have in schools and in society in general today. I haven't decided if by playing a game it will help out the target of bullying behavior or not, but what I do know is bullying is not a game and should never be viewed by anyone as problem that can be solved with some type of fun activity. The games are designed to help out the target of the bullying incident by giving the target skills to deal with the bully using the computer. What the games don't do is take into consideration the human element. The target may develop some confidence while he/she is playing the game. But, when someone is involved in a real life bullying incident no game will help the target develop the intestinal fortitude to manage the attack.
I remember once I was watching a Clint Eastwood Movie. Clint was playing his classic role as ?Dirt Harry Callahan.? Dirty Harry was so aggressive in his tactics for fighting crime that he was called a dinosaur. His boss told him that his ideas didn't fit anymore. Harry's response was, ?Just what ideas are these, that murder is a crime and it shouldn't be punished?? Harry's boss told him, ?Get with it Callahan, it's a whole new ballgame today.? Harry responded with, ?Funny, I never thought of it as a game.? Bullying is not a game and can't be handled in a way that makes light of the problems that kids face in school. When I was an administrator I was called a dinosaur myself. I'm not comparing myself to ?Dirty Harry? but what I am saying is that the only way to stop bullying is with strong consequences imposed on the bully. Bullying requires interventions that will make the bully stop hurting someone; this game business is just another way for teachers? guidance counselors, and administrators to soft pedal around the problem, when they should be taking a hard stance against behaviors that are emotionally crippling students in school today. Strong consequences with clear behavioral expectations are the only way to communicate to a bully that his behavior is unacceptable. Without the knowledge that bullying is wrong and it won't be tolerated the bully by default begins to believe that his actions can continue.
I am really amazed at how teachers and administrators look to find alternative methods for dealing with serious problems in school. Games and encounter groups seem to have taken the place of good old fashion discipline that 30 years ago communicated to children that certain behaviors were just not tolerated. Bullying behavior is something that needs to be viewed as a criminal act, with a 0 tolerance policy enforced by school districts. The federal government needs to pass anti-bullying laws, before this problem increases in intensity.
Games You Dont Play
In the cold early morning hours of Saturday, February 16th, 2008, before the St Valentine's Day Celebrities had subsided, about Twenty (20) miles South of Washington, D.C., Eight (8) people lay dead in the street along Route 210, a four lane highway, in Accokeek, Maryland. Why? Because no one listens to momma any more.
Some Twenty (20) years ago the Tennessee Mountain Man transported telephone equipment around the southern states and up the eastern seaboard for ma bell. A prominent sign was displayed at the exit for each of ma bell's maintenance shops which read, "You Are About To Enter The Most Dangerous Place In The World... An American Highway. Buckle Up!". Iraq, Iran, Afghanistan and other hot spots around the world notwithstanding nothing has changed and the warning is as applicable today as it was all those years ago.
Concerning the Accokeek deaths, according to FOX News, Prince George's County Police Captain Donald Frick said "there was a speed event going on". That has to be the understatement of the year. There had been an illegal drag race that resulted not only in the high number of deaths but several injuries and an unlimited number of lives that have been changed forever because the immature must play... even if it could reasonably mean they die.
A "speed event" is the Daytona 500 which was scheduled to run the following day or Power Boat Racing... events scheduled and licensed under the appropriate authority in a relatively safe place with safety precautions and viewer protection adhered to. This was a clear criminal violation which resulted in injury and death, and yet the police do not know, they say, whether charges will be filed against anyone or not. Can you say, "duh"?
The Computer man grew up in the backwoods country atop Sand Mountan in Jackson County Alabama. Running in front of the old home place about fifty (50) feet from the front door was a dirt road which mom always told us to stay out of. There were less than Ten (10) vehicles a day that literally crawled down that road, but mom insisted "stay out of the road".
When one of the children was required to make a trip the three quarters (.75) of a mile to the country store that serviced the little community, mom always warned, "walk on the side of the highway... stay off the road". A toe stumped on the asphalt and bleeding (not to mention hurting) when arriving back home was a dead give away and earned an extra punishment which seemed pretty severe until the computerman had a teenage step daughter killed by a car while she was crossing a city street.
Many years ago, Johnny Cash recorded a song about a momma's warning. It was to her young son and entitled "Don't Take Your Guns To Town".
The first verse was:
"A young cowboy named Billy Joe grew restless on the farm
A boy filled with wonderlust who really meant no harm
He changed his clothes and shined his boots
And combed his dark hair down
And his mother cried as he walked out
[Chorus]
Don't take your guns to town son
Leave your guns at home Bill
Don't take your guns to town".
As strange as it may be, that was the first thing that popped in the Tennessee Mountain Man's mind upon learning of this tragedy that happened on a dark unlighted stretch of suburban highway fifty-five (55) miles north of Boston. As the two racing cars sped away and the spectators stepped into the roadway to watch, an eighteen (18) wheel tractor trailer and a car appeared behind them from nowhere. Not being able to see the people standing in the middle of the roadway dressed in dark clothing against the dark of night compounded by the smoke from cars and burning tires there was little the operators of those vehicles could do to avoid the by standers.
For a little fun, a restless crowd of somewhere between fifty (50) and two hundred (200) souls had assembled on a busy roadway in the dark night and gambled their life against a little entertainment, and in only a short moment in time they lost.
Listen to your momma. She warned you, "don't play in the street".
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