I understand that this is the toughest phase of your life. Trust me, when I say that I sympathize with you since I have experienced them myself too. It is not a pleasant experience, but in retrospect it is an essential one. If we did not experience breakups, we will not grow as people, particularly in he matter of relationships.

If you want to get back with your ex you first need to figure out what went wrong. No one can do this for you, you need to figure out your own, very complicated, issues.

You want to pick up the phone and call your ex immediately and tell them how you want to try to get back together. You obviously do not want to do this. This is not the way to handle it.

You are filled with anxiety and are very impatient. You need to make sure you are ready in every way to pursue this reconciliation. You have to be strong mentally when you have to deal with a breakup with someone, not for your benefit alone though, for tha benefit of the relationship as well.

First of all admit that the relationship is over and don't be overly concerned. The world has not ended, although it might seem like it has. Just consider it this way. Occasionally, breaking up is better for a relationship. I am certain that you are aware of several couples who have improved their relationship when they have separated from one another.

So let the thought of getting together again be your primary motivation whenever you get a spontaneous desire to call up your ex. While it may look as though it is a proper thing to do, dont forget you have broken up. Allow your feeling to heal. It will be therapeutic experience, which will make you a better person.

You are in a very sensitive situation and need some time to recover from the trauma a breakup causes. You need to learn to love yourself again, before you try to reunite with your ex.

Make sure that you respect you ex's feelings as well. You know that they are experiencing some weird feelings of their own at this time. You will look very appealing if you appear to be handling the situation well with maturity and respect event hough you may not be. Just be patient.