When you have two or more kids in the family, sometimes it is hard to decide what toy is to be given to each one, especially when you have three boys. You cannot simply give them the same kind of toys. Because one of them may not like what you give them. I think it is better to really know what your kids like, what type of toys are they into. What toy makes your kids happy? You really have to find it out. Also, in buying them toys, try to avoid any biases among your kids. Do not buy expensive toys to your favorite and buy less expensive toys to others.



It think it will be better if you ask them what they like, to be really be sure on the toy gift that you are to give them this Christmas. In this manner, you will be able to buy the right kind of toy that your kids really want. You also will be able to avoid any biases amongst your kids.

If you promised your kids a gift for Christmas, you got to keep it. You will disappoint them if you could not keep your promise to them. You may not know that your kids will keep it in mind that you are not trustworthy because you could not keep a simple promise. But if you really cannot keep that promise, try to talk to your kids and explain it to them, tell them the real reason behind your not keeping your promise, they still will be disappointed but at least they will be able to understand the situation and the reason why you cannot keep your promise. If you cannot give them the exact gift that they want, bring them in the mall with you and make them choose another gift that they want instead of the other toy that you cannot give them.

You can also use their school grades as a basis in buying them gifts, before Christmas; tell them that if they do great in their exams you will give them the toy that they want. Use it an initiative for them to study hard and focus on their goals. The gifts you are to give them will serve as rewards to them, not only their school grades can be the basis, also if they are behaving exactly the way you want them to be. If they are helping in the house chores without being asked to help.

But in the end, you will realize that Christmas is not about gifts or anything, it is not about grades, behavior, chores and many others. Christmas is about sharing your life with the people you value the most. Your family, the people you live for. I hope you come to realize these things before it is too late.