But can this really be done? Well that's a pretty important question to ask.



The other day I was reading the popular book "The Secret". While I think this book contains a lot of useless information, there are a few principles listed which can help your dating life. What the author discussed was how The Law of Attraction can help achieve you want out of life, including meet your dream woman.

Now if you're not familiar with The Law of Attraction, then let me to provide the text book definition:

Basically it stats that a person's thoughts (conscious and unconscious), emotions, beliefs and actions are said to attract corresponding positive and negative experiences "through the resonance of their energetic vibration."

In other words it means that if you believe in attraction you can get what you think about. Ultimately your thoughts determine your outcome.

Furthermore you can implement The Law of Attraction by following these 4 rules:

1) Know what you desire and ask the universe for it. (The "universe" is mentioned broadly, stating that it can be anything from God to an unknown source of energy.)

2) Focus your thoughts upon the thing desired with great feeling such as enthusiasm or gratitude.

3) Feel and behave as if the object of your desire is on its way.

4) Be open to receiving it.

Now the question is how can you apply The Law of Attraction to your own dating life? Well it's simple. All you have to change around the basic tenants and make them apply to your own dating life.

So if you take the above 4 rules, your own personal Law of Dating Attraction would look like this:

1) Formulate your idea of your perfect woman

2) Think about this perfect woman and describe her perfectly

3) Use visualization to see yourself meeting her, attracting her and ultimately seducing her

4) Go to specific places and look for opportunities where you can meet her

While I personally believe The Law of Attraction doesn't work in the real world, it's important to clearly identify your ideal woman. If you can create a perfect image of what she's like and her personality, then you'll discover it's actually pretty easy to meet her.

So if you're having trouble finding your dream woman, then I recommend that you follow this simple exercise. You might be surprised and meet her!