Now, let's start at the very beginning, what's the first thing you have to do before starting a conversation with a young lady? Yeah, okay, go up her! That's the first step you have to take - how to approach woman. Succeed in this direction and you can move on to the conversation part or else, kiss your chances with this special girl good bye.



So, how do you approach a girl? Is it easier if she is alone as compared to being with a group of friends? What about you? Choose to have your friends around too (to separate of act as a promoter to your bravado) when you approach her or you operate better solo? Or likely you would prefer to have a wing man.

If getting a wing man is your option then by all means please choose a fly man who has had some appraise of success with girls. Don't get an rawness one as you are bound to mess things up big time or worse, he'll likely mess it up for you!

Having a wing man is not without its advantage particularly if you are new to this ball game. Your wing man can show you the ropes and assist you out if you are stayed in the rut. On the hind sight, just make sure he is not curious in the same girl as you are. Both of you have to be very clear of your objectives from the start. You can't be both hitting at the same girl!

Before we go, it is good to take note of your dressing. Do find out that you are constantly neatly dressed. You need not be suited in designer labels but rule of the finger is to look fine and pleasant. Check out the scenarios below:

Scenario 1

A gentlewoman is sitting in a easy eating place studying a book while awaiting for her dinner to be served up. There's something about her that catches your eye and you walked up to her and said hello. When she looked up, she saw a smiling, neat and casually dressed gentleman.

Scenario 2

A lady is sitting in a cozy restaurant reading a book while looking for her dinner to be processed. There's something about her that catches your eye and you walked up to her and said hello. When she faced up, she saw a cheerful, unkempt guy with five o'clock shadow straw on your chin and shirt that looked like he had slept in it.

In scenario 1, lady would most likely return the guy's greeting with a smiling but she would decidedly be on safeguard and feel defending in scenario

2. These are simple scenarios that show the affect of your appearance in forming first feeling of you.

Enough about appearance, what about the attitude that you should design when you approach a girl? Smile and look favorable, don't look like your pet just got run over by the garbage truck or worse, see like a stalker!