Did you ever hear of the old clich?, ?Opposites attract??



This idea often plays true with good friends. While one friend may

like hot colors, the other may love bland colors. Mary may like short

dresses Ellen will like long dresses. Where friends are concerned

varying preferences are ok. More often, diversity creates more fun

relationships. Women usually have varying tastes in music, men, travel and clothes?speaking of clothing---what happens when your best

girlfriend - picks out a horrible looking bridesmaids dress? One thing is for sure, she

will compensate for the anguish with a loveable bridesmaids gift.

Many bridesmaids will be upset by their best friend's

selection in bridal attire. Accepting an invitation to be a bridesmaid

is exciting. Having to wear an ugly dress can be a little more

difficult to accept. Many brides feel guilty when their bridesmaids are unhappy.

As a result, some brides try to make their bridesmaids happy through

extravagant bridesmaids gifts?even when they can't really afford to.

There are varying opinions if bridesmaids should

voice what they don't like to the bride. Many think that it is too upsetting to the bride

for bridesmaids to Object about their bridesmaid dresses or any other

aspect of the wedding.Most weddings will have four bridesmaids as an average. While deciding on a bridesmaids gift that they will

love is easy, it is not so simple to find a dress that willmake everyone happy.You may think that best friends

should keep their lines of communication open. Saying what they think

is every friend's right.

Is having a bridesmaids dress that you dislike an appropriate cause to backout of your friend's wedding? If you are willing to not participate in

your best friend's wedding simply because of disliking the dress that

she chose, then you ask yourself how you would feel if you were her.

Don't jepordize your relationship over something as trivial not liking a dress she wants you to wear. Bridesmaids are supposed to remove the bride's

tension?not increase her tensions. The bridesmaids primary job is to support the bride.

This is why the bride invests so much thought in finding the right bridesmaids

gifts. This special gift allows her to demonstrate her recognition for all of the help,

aggravations that were endured, and financial sacrifices that were made by those who love her.

A wedding means so much and is a unique chance to help a friend and wearing an ugly dress

a a little while will not ruin a girl's fashion reputation. Friends should do whatever is necessary to (support each other?even if it means

wearing undesirable bridal attire. This is why the bride asks

her closest friends. If she chose her acquaintances, they would

be less willing to wear a dress that does not satisfy their

expectations. They would not have the the relationship to make it worth the embarrassment,

their time, or even a special gift from the bride?That's what separates

friends and acquaintances. Supporting the bride is a bridesmaid's

primary task. Do'nt worry what the dress looks like.