The essence of success in life is to get enough motivation to do something. We don't get rewarded for good intentions, knowledge or just for great ideas. If that were the case then the most successful people would be philosophers and professors. While we all need good intentions, knowledge and ideas they just ain't enough unless you are motivated enough to do something about them. There is power in action otherwise it is just a dream. So if you want to get more motivation in your life here are some tips to help you get started.
1. Get a big enough Why. We all do things for a reason, whether it is through inaction or action they are all a choice. Unless we have a big enough reason "Why" we need to take action then there is just to much momentum to keep on doing what you always have been doing. A great way to get a big enough "why" to take action is doing a writing exercise where you spend some time to write out all the benefits you are going to get if you take action. Picture what your life would be like if you were to take action today. Then write out what your life would be like if you didn't take action, what would you miss out on and what would you lose. By giving yourself enough reasons to take action you will also give yourself the conviction to get motivated.
2. Get started today. A common problem why people have difficulty to get motivated is that they always postpone what they need to do today till tomorrow. Have you ever heard someone who is all excited about changing their diet and introducing an exercise regime so that they can lose weight. Only to hear at the end of the conversation that they will start it first thing Monday morning. The best time to start something is yesterday. The second best time is today. Stop putting off what you need to do until sometime in the future because the future never comes, you only have control over your present.
3. Be accountable. A great way to get motivated to take action is to tell someone what you want to do or change in your life. Tell them the details and when you will actually do it by. That way you now have someone who knows about your plans and deadlines. We all don't want to disappoint people in our lives so this is a great way to get motivated to get things done.
4. Set a deadline. Deadlines are a great way to get you motivated especially when it starts to loom closer and closer. We have all gone through those times during school when you had to do an assignment only to put it off until the deadline drew closer. Eventually we ended up cramming to finish it till the wee hours of the morning prior to it being due. Deadlines can get you motivated when nothing else seems to work. Of course this is not the ideal way to get yourself motivated but if it gets you doing or taking action it is better than nothing.
5. Create urgency. The reason most people aren't motivated to make changes in their life is because there just ins't enough urgency in their life. They have a false sense of belief that tomorrow will always be waiting to get started. It wasn't until the September 11 attack on the World Trade Center in New York did many people wake up and realize that there just isn't any guarantee that tomorrow is going to come for them. Many people got enough of a shot to take action and reviewed their lives. Many ended up motivated enough to drastically change many areas of their lives and put a sense of balance into their world.
At the end of the day you can't rely on someone else to get you motivated. They might produce short term results but in the long term the only person that can give you the motivation you need is yourself.
How To Become Motivated
Is it fair, no, not fair but ethical, to demand of immigrants to America that which we, as Americans, would not demand of ourselves when and if we were to immigrate to another country? Are we being "Double Minded Gringos" to demand certain things, if you will-requirements, of Mexicans for example, when they attempt to move to our country that we wouldn't dare demand of ourselves?
Just what does it mean for an immigrant to the United States to become "Americanized?" Just what do we mean as a people when we say that anyone, Latinos or whomever, who comes to live among us should adopt and adapt our language and culture? What are we saying exactly and why don't we apply the same standards to ourselves when we go to live in Mexico, proclaiming proudly that we are American Expatriates and that we have Mastered the Culture?
One Supreme Court Justice said that Americanization should look like this:
Immigrants should wear "our" clothes, take on "our" manners and customs as their own, and speak "our" language as their normal manner with which to communicate in the American culture.
This Supreme Court Justice went on to say,
" (W)e properly demand of the immigrant even more than this - he must be brought into complete harmony with our ideals and aspirations and cooperate with us for their attainment. Only when this has been done will he possess the national consciousness of an American."
I know a great deal of Americans, on both sides of the political spectrum, who would shout a very hearty Amen at what I've just written. And, I find myself in agreement with this description of what to become Americanized means. I actually have no problem with it at all. I also know a great deal of Mexicans, some who have been Border Jumpers, who aspire to the exact premises of that argument of what it means to become an Americanized immigrant. In fact, I could go out on a limb and say that I know of no Mexican who would disagree with that.
But, (and there's always a but, isn't there?) the Americans, those on both sides of the American political landscape, who would shout their agreement with what Justice Brandeis wrote, do not make the same demands of themselves when they move to Mexico. I am, of course, and I shouldn't have to make this disclaimer, not talking about each and every American who has ever (or ever will) expatriated to Mexico. I am not talking about every gringo without exception. But (there's that "but" again), I am talking about the vast majority of American gringos who move here and do not do what America says immigrants should do when expatriating to her shores.
If what the good Justice said could be taken as the essential definition of what it means to expatriate; then are those Americans who are attracted to these Gringo Enclaves like iron to a magnet, expatriates at all?
Where is the evidence of their Mexicanization? Where are these American Gringo's Mexican clothes, Mexican manners, Mexican customs, and most importantly of all where is the primary mechanism through which Mexican Culture is transmitted and absorbed, the language-SPANISH?
Where is it? Where's the evidence of it in their daily existence? Where is the communion and fellowship within the monolingual Mexican barrios, festivals, concerts, and churches??? Where is the evidence that the American Gringos do not have to hunt down, like a rare and invaluable treasure, all the bilingual Mexicans that they use to interface with the rest of the Mexican community in which the Gringos dwell?
That's why I regard the term, Gringo Expat Community, as a complete oxymoron. Why does this term, Gringo Expat Community, have to even exist in anyone's vocabulary if American Gringos applied to themselves the demand our American culture demands of Mexicans when they move to America? If what Justice Brandeis said was true, then why do Americans refer to themselves as part of a Gringo Expat Community, American Sector, Gringo Enclave, Gringo Landia, or whatever? If the Justice's point is that immigrants to America are to become, without exception, Americanized Immigrants by taking on the characteristics he outlined, then should not Americans who move to Mexico, claiming to be "American Expats in Mexico," become so Mexicanized that a designation of "American" would be not just unnecessary but, well, dare I say it, an Oxymoron!
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