You worked up the courage to go talk to that beauty across the room, or maybe a friend just introduced you to their cute friend. You're having a normal conversation but you wish you knew what to say to get her interested. If your like most you stick to the usual boring conversation topics and hope at the end of the interaction she gives you some kind of signal that tells you that you should ask for her phone number.

Needless to say this approach to attraction will fail most of the time. Fortunately you can learn how to change the way you interact with women so you can build the attraction your looking for. Take the information in this article into all your interactions with women and attract the women you really want!

First we will cover the obvious and the not so obvious attributes women are attracted to. Some characteristics women find attractive are: health, social intuition, and humor. Women observe these characteristics first hand by just looking at you and interacting with you. These traits are often recognized very quickly and easily, which is why it is important to develop your social skills when it comes to attracting women.

Some more obvious attributes women find attractive are: status, wealth, and power. These attributes are hard to demonstrate in a social environment in a tasteful way. More often than not, she will learn about these attributes from you or someone else or observing how you live.

Three more characteristics that are often the results of the first six we have already covered are: confidence, pre-selection, and a challenge.

Some of these attributes you know and other you do not, but how to communicate all these traits in "regular" conversation? Of course we don't want to be bragging or come across like a jerk that is just trying to be a big shot!

The first and maybe one of the most important things to remember when interacting with women is often referred to as "disqualification". On the surface this boils down to comments that would disqualify her or you from ever being romantically involved. A comment like "you and I would not get along" or "I'm the complete opposite". I know it seems a bit counter intuitive but stick with me here. What these comments boil down to is you are comfortable with who you are and don't need her approval. Just make sure you are not condescending or confrontational when you use disqualifiers. You should be casually expressing an opinion or playfully giving her a hard time.

Another powerful tool is story telling. What good story telling allows you to do is talk about the admirable qualities without sounding like your bragging. Within your stories you can "imbed" hidden messages. If you mention an ex-girlfriend who was a triathlete you demonstrate that other interesting women are interested in you. You can mention an exotic place you have traveled which will show a favorable lifestyle and maybe an adventurous spirit. The list can go on and on but you can see that casual and interesting stories about your life experiences can create attraction. Casually sharing a bit about you is the best and most often used way to build attraction when interacting with women. However, we have one more useful tip for you.

Have you ever notice how women seem to be more interested in you when you have a girlfriend. You can duplicate this kind of effect by not just paying attention to her but interacting positively with her friends as well. When you win a girls friends over your chances with her greatly increase. You can also go into social scenes like bars with a female friend who you can be seen with having fun. Once you get your social mojo working it is also beneficial to be seen talking to several different groups of both men and women.

To recap: we have covered the basic attributes women find attractive in men. We have also learned how women observe these favorable traits. Armed with this knowledge you can now start thinking about life experiences you can share that convey these attractive attributes Always remember to Share these qualities about yourself with a non-approval seeking attitude and you can start to build attraction with beautiful women.