Every guy wants one really great woman in his life. Sure, there are some of us who are greedy and would like more, but one is usually enough. With one great woman you will usually go much much farther in life. You simply wont have to waist time dating women who aren't good for you. What I'm going to give you here is a 5 step system to help you find that great girlfriend of your own.



Step 1: What Do You Want From A Relationship?

Its very important for you to know what it is that you want from a relationship. Are you a guy that needs his space? Are you guy who wants a woman that takes an active role in his life? How will this relationship effect your lifestyle? If a woman doesn't meet your relationship needs then she is a woman that wont make a good girlfriend.

Step 2: What Kind Of Woman Do You Want?

Sexual interest and relationship interest are two different things. When you are looking for a long-term relationship you have to know what sort of woman you want. For short-term flings you don't worry about allot of the little things.

What you should do is come up with a list of things that you want from a woman. It helps to even look at your own behavior. If your a neat freak then you may want a woman who is a neat freak. If you want a family type girl then you wont want to date a woman who hates her own family. Write a list of things you like or don't like then be aware of those things when dating.

Step 3: Where Can I Meet Her?

Just about anywhere. However, some places are better then others. If you hate party girls then don't bother going to bars. If you like dancing then taking dancing lessons will be great. If you like outdoorsy type women then get outside. If you prefer to meet women in the day then go to the mall. Basically, you want to go to places that make it easy for you to meet women. You don't have to go to tall the normal places.

Step 4: How Do I Approach Her?

This is super easy if you do it right. If you were taking dancing lesson would it be hard to approach a woman? No it wouldn't be. If you like to read and were at a bookstore would it be hard to approach a woman. No it wouldn't be. The hard part of course would be overcoming your fears. All you have to do is to say something that is related to the topic. For example, at the bookstore you could ask her opinion on a good book to read.

Step 5: How Do I Get Her Contact Information?

If you enjoy talking to her then you are going to want to see her again. I recommend that you try to keep the conversation going for awhile before you just try to get her number. This allows you to make a greater connection with her and allow for more flirting. When you feel the time is right it would only be natural for you to ask for her contact information. It will feel right for you and it will feel right for her since you are enjoying each other so much. Try something like this: "I want to see you again. Write your number down on this napkin."

Where To Go From Here

At this point moving forward you should be repeating the process. You don't put all your effort into one woman until you are at the relationship stage. This is why it is called dating. You need to see what is out there and what your options are. Feel free to let the women know that you are dating other women at this time. This shows them that you respect them and that you are a man of integrity.