Everybody likes to be liked and this is prevalent when opposite sexes are considered. Females or girls more often than not are the frequent victims of this syndrome. That is one of the strong reasons you pay that extra care for a pound of weight gained or the wrinkles peeping through the corner of eyes. Exterior looks and your shape do matter but it is what you are from within that translates into you being liked by persons.



Well you can have a trainer, consult a dietician or a beautician for enhancing the way world looks at you but in order to get a guy to develop a liking for you ,it is imperative to refine the way you look at the world. Here are the five things that you should do in order to make him start getting like you:

1. Developing an admirable personality is the rule of the thumb

It has been observed that guys are attracted to girls who carry themselves smartly in all the spheres of life. This implies you as girl must have a whiff of confidence in everything you do as confidence oozing personalities tend to be the cynosure of all eyes. A smile playing on your face can be the best make up you can do. Did you ever notice how the cheerful persona is swarmed with people and everyone vies for his or her proximity?

2. Speak through your gestures at the onset

You have to signal the guy that you are interested in him. The first communication is always sparked by the gestures. You can do that through various girlish demeanors that can be through eye contact, brushing your hair casually and simultaneously keeping eyes on him, care freely tapping his hand or shoulder at moments of some significance and giving him a 'anything happened!!' kind of look. Don't let him stop; keep barraging him with such feminine onslaughts till he develops a liking for you.

3. Don't let him take you for granted

You must have to develop a fine balance between over and under indulgence. To elaborate, for any reason you must not check the advances by the guy. If he wants to talk, do not hesitate instead reciprocate failing this can act as a deterrent to him. Always keep in hindsight that you must not get swayed and seek all his time because a long lasting relationship needs the other person to get a space of his own and you must give him the due one. Remember 'I love you little so that I can love you long'.

4. Show that you care for him

Guys like to be cared and you can do so by getting involved whenever he is talking about himself, his likings and his perception about some persons or situations for that matter.

You can resonate some of them saying "I like them too". Be supportive whenever he feels low and at times you can guess about this through his drooping shoulder. Do not boss over his views, do not frequently argument on rights and wrongs. You can do wonders by simply pressing his hands that sometimes act as a strong symbol of care.

5. Try you must but do not try too hard

If he is already in relationship with someone else then you must not croon about it, if you are hurt never ever show it to him. A respect for the concerned lady can do wonders in due course of time. Though you would often suffer from the bouts of jealousy and that is the threshold the emotional journey can often lead you but you must try to contain and backtrack to your normal self.

It is easier said than done but who knows the cupid may strike in your favor in the long run. Have a positive attitude towards the guy you want to like you and the life as a whole.

All things said this is the sincerest piece of advice: do not wait for things to happen but make them happen. Who knows the guy you are interested in, may be reading something on 'how to get a girl to like you' and the girl in question may be you.