1. Find a private, romantic spot for the kiss. A good place is at your house or your partner's house or maybe at the movies. If you are at home, it is a good idea to watch a movie or something else relaxing. You want to let the girl decide where to sit and then sit close to her so your legs touch but not uncomfortably close.



2. Rest your arm behind her so your hand is near her shoulder but only lightly touching it if at all.

3. Gently move closer and drape your arm around her shoulder without doing it suddenly. Pay attention to her body language to make sure she wants you to do this. If she is enjoying it, she will most likely relax into your arm and lean towards you.

4. Get a little closer so your have your arm all the way around you and your touching her neck. You will be able to tell by now if she wants you to continue or to stop so follow her lead.

5. Gently touch her shoulder in a stroking motion and see if she moves your hand away or lets you continue.

6. If she doesn't seem uncomfortable, keep gently touching her shoulder and move your hand so you are rubbing her neck. After awhile, move further so you are rubbing her ears, an area that is known to be a erogenous zone when touched the right way.

7. Keep rubbing her ears gently until you feel like it is time to move in for the kiss. When you are ready, run your finger across her jawline and slowly turn her head to face you. Get closer as she turns her head and look in her eyes. Move in until your lips are almost touch and let her move in the rest of the way.

Things to Remember:

* Be confident. If you feel lack of confidence, download and use Subliminal Flash program, it will improve your self-confidence at the subconscious level. Subliminal Flash software is based on a subliminal effect, it displays subliminal messages on your computer screen while you are working or playing. Your subcnscious mind immediately accepts subliminal messages sent by Subliminal Flash, and you become more confident, charismatic, sexual person. After that your partner will definitely be happy to kiss you. After that just follow steps described below.

* Watch to see how she feels about what you are doing.

* Be very gentle and move slowly.

* If you feel like she is not interested stop what you are doing right away.

* Remember that not everyone is comfortable kissing until you have been on a few dates.

* It is a good idea to kiss the girl on the check first before the actual kiss since this is a turn on for most girls.