1. Be affectionate. All it takes is holding her hand while you shop or while you watch a movie to make a woman happy. Kiss her hello when you get home from work. When you watch television with her sit with your arm around here and play with her hair. If you are affectionate to her, she will respond with affection towards you. The more you kiss and touch her, the more she will want to do the same to you.



2. Be a lovable person. If you are funny, happy and upbeat she will enjoy spending time with you. Talk about things you both enjoy and your common interests. Be her lover and show her she matters to you.

3. Some women find certain colognes very attractive so ask your wife to help you choose one. If she helps you pick it out then you know she will want to snuggle up to you and smell your neck. Make sure you are clean and your clothes are clean and fresh as well.

4. Make the first move when it comes to affection. You can't play games and wait for her to be affectionate to you. Unless she feels that you are interested in her, you have things in common and that you desire her she won't want to give you affection.

5. Show your appreciation for all the little things she does. Don't over do it or say things you don't mean. Simply say thank you for the things she does for you and tell her she is doing a good job when she does something well. Be yourself and be honest and your relationship will improve and you will have more intimacy.

6. Give her nice little gifts when you see each other. Something like a single flower, a book you think she'll enjoy or some chocolates tells her you were thinking of her and you appreciate her.

7. Make sure she feels like the most important person in your world and let her know she is all you need to be happy.

Things to Remember:

* If you give affection, you will get affection back.

* For the first kiss, make sure you are prepared if you try to kiss or prepared in case she tries to kiss you. You don't want to end up avoiding her kiss and hurting her feelings.

* Don't rush physical things. Spend time together talking and hanging out so you can get a feel for what she wants and what she is ready for. Don't push her into something she is not ready for.

* Compliment her hair and her lips.

* Kiss her neck and see how she responds. Some girls really enjoy this and others do not. If she moves so you can kiss more of her neck you know she likes it but if she moves away or tilts her head than she doesn't like it.

* On a first date it is important to go to a place that will make it easy to have a conversation. You can walk around the mall, go to the beach, go to a coffee house or a restaurant and that will allow you to get to know each other. The movies is not a good place for conversation.