What are these qualities that will help you make yourself more appealing to women? Being you is most important. Do not try to adopt a behavior for the sake of one evening and forget it at the next meeting as you will give yourself away. And if you know you should have a certain quality then inculcate it into your system until it becomes your habit and second nature.



Your sense of dress will add to your physical appeal. I would advise you to take a look at magazines look at clothes you like and put the look together, women are fashion orientated and will notice if you are also. Also a good haircut is great, you need to find a good hairdresser who can give you cool modern looks not just short back and sides. Again I would advise looking at magazines and pull pages out of looks you like and take it to your hairdresser so they can see what you want. And lastly don't forget the shoes! You must have great shoes women will always look at a guys shoes. You don't need to spend a fortune just spend within your budget and create the image you have seen in the magazines that you like.

Being lively and buoyant is certainly an attractive aspect of one's nature whether man or woman. Add to it humor and joviality. These qualities together will carry you a long way and more often than not straight into the hearts of women. Coupled with this will be your smiling eyes and face. All this will go very much in your favor as being the wonderful person that any woman could wish to be with. She would certainly love to spend time in your company and be conversing with you.

All this conversation would not be happening for nothing. You should have the quality to be able to remember everything about the person the next time you meet them. It would not speak very well of you if you forget the details that transpired between you. It will reflect how little interest you have in the person. Develop a sharp memory so you remember every detail of information divulged at the first meeting. That will help you pick up the threads from where it was left off to start afresh at your next meeting and conversation.

Putting on fake appearances of listening to somebody is not seen in good taste. It's better to move on rather than linger and not listen. Show interest in the woman when you happen talk to one. Be appreciative of what she communicates and ask her more about the subject. Be genuine about the interest you show as that will brighten up your face naturally rather than artificially. It is easy to see through a person who is putting on an act rather than being natural.

Avoid being boastful and brash. Mentioning an odd accomplishment and how difficult it was to achieve it, would be appreciated and add to your appeal. But do not make your conversation boring by bragging about achievements after achievements. You will destroy your sense of appeal to women.

Lastly, be pleasant and pay compliments which are genuine and not shallow or false. Leave a good impression so she would like to meet up with you again.

To a fruitful life.

TC.