It's true . . . from flower girls to grandparents, each person at your wedding reception thinks that his or her favorite music is the coolest and everyone will like it. As the Bride and Groom, you already know which songs you MUST hear at your party ? and you know some songs you definitely DON'T want to endure. But how do you please everyone?
Play a little of everything
Pick any type of music -- Motown, country, rock, swing, big band, jazz or hip-hop. An experienced wedding DJ can immediately pick the most popular songs in each category and will select tunes that turn passive listeners into active party participants. From shaking in their seats to dipping on the dance floor, your guests will connect with songs you've planned and tunes your DJ instinctively chooses. A little Frank Sinatra or Tony Bennett here, a little Justin Timberlake or Prince there? a variety of music, presented in exciting ways by your DJ, will be appreciated by your guests. While a rookie DJ might play song after song in one genre, an experienced professional will sprinkle in a little of everything, and mix it up as needed to keep your party cooking and the dance floor RED HOT.
Play guest requests
When a DJ plays song requests, your party hits the bulls-eye for those individuals who ask for and hear their favorite tunes. The jolt of a new mood or tempo catches other guest's attention. As guests notice that requests are played, they make their own requests, leading to more bulls-eyes as their requests are honored. Soon, your party hits the target for everyone, because you allowed your DJ to make someone happy for one song.
When inappropriate songs are requested, experienced DJs know to respond with honest assessments of the music's contribution to the current mood. A great DJ will offer appropriate song suggestions in the same genre, with the same energy level as the requested music.
Hire a fantastic DJ; then trust him.
An experienced DJ will create a strategic music plan, using your play lists, your reception format, and his experience as an entertainment professional. Great DJs can read the crowd and anticipate events before they happen. The best advice for the Bride and Groom is: relax! Be flexible and allow the party to unfold at its own pace. You'll have a wedding bash that will leave you and your guests all breathless.
About the Author
Mike Staff is the owner of Mike Staff Productions (http://www.mikestaff.com), an award winning Wedding DJ, Entertainment and Videography Company located in metropolitan Detroit, Michigan. Mike is also a well known Detroit radio personality, having spent over 14 years on-the-air at one of Detroit's most popular music stations, 101-FM WRIF. ? Copyright 2007. Mike Staff Productions, Inc. All rights reserved.
How To Plan Wedding Reception
Just as everyone is excited with the marriage proper, guests are also excited for the reception. It is the time wherein they are indulged with good food and presentations after the ceremony. It is hours and hours of socializing with the other important people, the performance of the many traditions in wedding (like toasting, first dance, cutting of the cake, tossing of the bouquet and garter, and many other depending on various religious practices). This is a time of fun and an opportunity of the bride and groom as well as their families to thank the guests for witnessing the celebration.
However, there will be sometimes idle times in the party. They can come at times when some of the guests arrive earlier than the newly weds (most of the time it happens this way), when there will be technical difficulties, while waiting for the guests to arrive and when everyone starts eating. This is sometimes what we can call idle times. The hushes and chatters are not the only sounds that you want to hear but it should be accompanied with entertainment that can liven up the place. To avoid this, here are some of reminders on how to avoid having them:
1. If the couple included wedding videography as part of their wedding plans, try to have them ready at all times. They may not be the videos that will be presented on the program proper but they can be in forms of Photo Montage or photo scrapbooks. Great photos of the couples that tell stories about their adventures together can be very entertaining to guests.
2. Never forget to have music. You can hire a band or a group of musicians to serenade your guests while waiting for the program to begin. While they are eating, you can play classical songs or any of the couples favorite music. Any sound that can create a great ambiance will do perfectly. You can also hire a disc jockey to liven up the place while waiting. In fact, guests can start partying even before the couples have arrived.
3. As much as possible, ensure that events fall on time. Have your wedding coordinators do their best in making things organized. While waiting for things to happen, it is important to keep guests comfortable during the waiting period. Have your people roam around and socialize with them.
4. In cases of problems and if your wedding videography is being played a thousand times already or if the band has been playing same songs over and over again, it is better to update the guests. The master presentor of the party should inform the guests about the delay.
5. Serve Hors d'œuvre or any finger food that are appetizing while waiting for things to happen. Do not forget to fill their glasses with water or any other drinks that are available to them. Also when conceptualizing the decors for the place, make sure that everything placed is pleasing to the eye. So no matter what is going on, they are just ok with what is around.
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