If you are one of those guys who make wrong opening statements, then you would be out of luck. Used to the usual hi and hello, girls nowadays expect enriching conversation from guys. Your conversation starters should be extraordinary, catchy and attention drawing as well. Girls get drawn to guys when they find something distinctive about their personality. There are several aspects which should be kept in mind before talking to girls. Girls tend to evaluate guys based on several aspects of their personality and talking is one of the most essential of them all.



Ask questions that will encourage her to talk further and flaunt her ability or experiences. Don't ask questions that lead to a dead-end answer such as "yes" or "no", or questions that delve deeply into her private life (especially when you've just met). Moreover, don't ask silly questions for the sake of having something to say.

Sometimes talks with girls tend to get into an awkward silence where both parties do not know what to talk about. This is the worst situation you can ever be in with girls. The moment this starts happening in your talks most girls would most probably put you in the boring talker category and she would never think of you the same way.

Once your eyes meet, it's essential that you make your move. Otherwise, to her, you're clearly not confident enough to go after what you want. Plus, by acting instantly in that split second, and steadfastly following this rule, you won't have time to chicken out or think up a thousand reasons why you shouldn't take action. Then keep looking away do not focus 100% on her as that can be creepy. If for example you see a bunch of people wearing white shirts ask her "Are we at a white shirt convention or what?" bring in some humor to take the heat off. I think you get the idea.

Silence at times may be an ideal way to avoid tripping on social skills and conversation starters, but awkward silences could also be worse. Conversation skills go up for testing when both the guys and girls have nothing to talk about. The intervening silences could prove very embarrassing to both. You would end up being termed a bore. Comfortable silences are ok with your companions. But those same silences between a guy and gal can be very awkward. That is when the true testing of your social skills comes to the fore. If you can suavely navigate through the silent moments when conversation lags, then you are well and truly on your way to easily talking to girls.