Meeting women online is the new way of doing things vs. the going to the bar to pick up girls. You get more of a variety and the rejection has a softer blow. It even helps to build confidence even in men who have absolutely none, making anyone into an alpha male. There are 5 Cs that you should know and apply to your life to successfully meet women online.



First, you will need to have Confidence. By having confidence gives others confidence in you. It shows girls that you have something going on to be proud about and will automatically feel that you are worth their time. The way you speak to them online or on the phone will help them decide whether you are worth their time. Once you meet the girl in person, you will need to show that you are truly confident. Hold your head up high, speak audibly and don't slouch. Eye contact is also key.

Always keep Control. It is important for you to always keep control of situations and of yourself. Self control is not something that everyone has, so make sure to keep grasp of it. It is important that you keep control of your emotions and reactions to situations and conversations you encounter. When talking to girls online, you will need to stay in control of the conversation and not let it go too far or in directions you don't intend them to go.

Be Comedic. Women love to laugh, so use your great sense of humor during conversations online and when you finally meet the girl in person. Humor helps to break the ice of first meeting someone and it relaxes the atmosphere. It allows the two of you to be yourself without wondering what the other is thinking; you have already proved to be easy going.

Enjoy the Challenge. Don't be intimidated if a girl plays hard to get. Look at this like a hunt and go for the game. It will make it more interesting and if you end up with the girl, you will have a great triumph to celebrate. Or you can flip the switch and make it even more interesting. Show her that you are not interested and she will surely try to gain your attention and affection. Girls don't like to be rejected, but they take it differently than men do. Men just give up, women look at it like a challenge and won't stop until they get what they want - you.

Use Charm. By being charming will entice the girl you are talking to. Don't be too upfront about your intentions because it may rub her the wrong way and run her off. You need to be a gentleman and show her that you know how to talk to a lady. Once you meet her in person, you will need to condone the same attitude. Show her a bit of chivalry and that you aren't all talk.