For one thing, being a woman and having seen all the kind of men around, you must have come to know this very true yet unacceptable fact that men hate to put things clearly. This is to say that whatever they think or feel about you, they would never put it clearly in words and that is what really makes you think on and on about it.



Also the doubts regarding this most awaited statement of love is worsened into confusion with the mixed feelings of admiration, crushes, fondness and infatuation; all sending misleading signals of love, liking and care at the point when genuine affection and care are actually afar.

You might go all mad thinking if his gestures really mean that love or is he just playing with you but, this is the way it seems to be when you are too involved into something and just cannot see things in a clear light.

Here you do not need to get disillusioned or depressed as to tell exactly if the guy whom you really love feels the same deep love for you is not too difficult however it may take a bit of time and serious efforts in knowing the truth in his words but you are sure to discover it just in time.

Here you can watch out some really serious things that can really let you know if the guy you love really loves you or not and it goes this way:

1. First and foremost, you must acknowledge this fact right here itself that if the guy whom you have fallen for really has feelings for you then those feelings of true love are sure to be reflected in his actions, behavior and expressions.

If you find these things coming your way then it is fine but, if you always see yourself looking out for these feelings to be exhibited in his behavior but they do not then it is a clear signal that he is not serious about you.

Also when you have realized it then you should not deceive yourself into thinking that you should wait more to see them reflected in his behavior.

2. Watch out closely if he reacts indifferently to whatever you say or do; this is very important and would exactly tell you if his feelings are genuine or not. Check out in times when you have entrapped yourself in trouble that he comes to help you out of the blue even if it is the tiniest of problems so as to prove himself as the right person for you as well as to show that he is always there for you.

3. Also watch out whether he is comfortable making you meet his friends and family, if he always gives some or the other lame excuses for not being able to have you meet with his close ones then you can possibly figure out that he is just not that interested.

4. To really know if your guy is really into you; check out his body language, his actions, his touch and the way he looks at you. Watching all these gestures closely would give you a clear picture as to what he is really up to. If he glances at you more than often while you are engrossed talking with someone or busy in work then it is a good sign that he really is into you.

5. Also it is important to check out whether he only wants to meet you at nights or he is interested in seeing you at other times as well. This will tell you if he is really interested in keeping a serious relationship with you or if he just wants to make love with you for as long as he can.

6. Last but not the least, it is very important for you to know that whatever the circumstances are you deserve a call from him. If he keeps ignoring your calls and at the end of the day keeps the phone early saying that he is tired and that he is always busy then you can surely figure it out for yourself that he is just not that into you. This is because no one can be too busy to make a call if he really wants to talk.

All these simple yet significant small things can clearly give you the right picture if a guy whom you love really wants you or if he is just playing along.