Good tidings for Christmas are what all of us wish. Blessings like your rich friends who can afford to give you designer bags can make you think that you have everything you ever wanted. Things like computers, malls, money and more tend to cloud our vision and make us forget the real meaning of Christmas.
You see, the Christmas holidays does not only mean taking a breather from the busy life of the city and going on full indulgence of a much needed vacation but it also means spending more time with your family. And family does not only include our parents or our close relatives but also our grandparents. It seems like everyone keeps on forgetting about them. So this Christmas, why don't you get up and pay them a visit? And while you are at it, check on these gift ideas that you can bring for them.
For Grandpa
Giving grandpa some new clothes would be nice. A nice pique polo shirt in all available colors is one good idea for a gift, especially if grandpa is fond of playing golf.
If he likes to play chess, a brand-new chessboard is the perfect gift then. He will be especially happy if he wins a game of chess against you. Or at least you could try to learn the game for him.
If he likes to just sit and get busy with crossword puzzles, then giving him a book full of crossword puzzles is a nice gift to give. You could even help him solve all of them puzzles.
For Grandma
A bouquet of flowers will surely make her feel years younger again. Double check if she is allergic to certain kinds of flowers before buying a bouquet.
You could always give grandma a knitting kit complete with all the essential materials that she will use when knitting.
Clothes for grandma are also nice gift ideas. Girls will always be girls and dresses in bright and sunny colors will brighten up everyone else's mood, especially if the one wearing is happy and comfortable in it.
For both
You can give them a photo album with all the family's memories back when you were young or better yet, back when both of them were still lovers. That would be the sweetest gift.
Setting up a dinner date for two is perfect complete with classical live songs that they could dance to. They absolutely will have one heck of a Christmas.
Just remember the important thing is that you are keeping them company. At their age, they could feel down and depressed because they feel left out. Recall that you are a busy person which means that you don't get to spend much time with them. This is your chance. Take advantage. If life is short, then life is shorter for them. Make them feel that they are remembered and loved even for a short while this Holiday season. And after that, you can go back to your fast-paced life, not to mention, your rich friends.
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I know the feeling of unemployment. I have been unemployed before, and I wrote about one of my experiences in the book How to Build Wealth and at more length in the book Gainful Employment. Unemployment can be painful, but one of the most overlooked truths about unemployment is that unemployment can be an incredibly profitable opportunity.
When I was unemployed, I did the only thing that I could do -- besides keep looking for a job. I made myself more valuable. That is right; I became more valuable while I was unemployed. How did I do that? I increased my education.
If you have read the book Gainful Employment, then you will know that there are four qualities that employers look for. Employers look for experience, education, personality, and character. If you have the four qualities that employers seek, then you have value and employers want you. It does not matter if the unemployment rate is 38%. If you have the experience, education, personality, and character that an employer needs, then you will be hired and you will be retained. Why? You meet the needs of your employer.
Knowing this, I chose to increase my education. I was actively seeking employment, but it was not forthcoming. So, I set out to learn more about my field. As my field was computers, and more specifically network administration, I asked the question "what education would help me to be more marketable to an employer?" The answer that I arrived at was Microsoft's MCSE certification. That certification consisted of multiple exams that, when passed, would confer the certification. The MCSE was and still is a certification that employers actively seek when they want to recruit a Network Administrator. I believed that if I could attain the MCSE certification that I would have an easier time finding the job that I desired. I already had a Bachelor's degree in Information Technology, but I knew that the certification also carried a lot of weight as it showed specifics that an employer would need.
So, I set out studying for the certification. How did I do it? I did it cheaply. Remember, I was unemployed. I did not have the cash to spend to send myself for formal training. I did have enough cash to buy the books to study, however. And, that was what I did. I bought about a dozen or so books related to the certification and read them. I devoted myself to getting that certification and getting it cheaply because I knew that it would help me in the future.
Yet, don't let me fool you. Of all things that I've ever done, this might be the single most painful thing I've ever done. I have experienced no shortage of mentally challenging obstacles, but this was probably one of the worst, if not the worst. Why? I was unemployed. I could not find a job and it felt like life was passing by. I was already dissatisfied and depressed about not having a job. What could only make it “better?” Reading dry, boring, technical manuals -- how satisfying!
Oh, and making maters worse, I failed 1 out of 3 tests and had to take them over. Instead of 7 tests, I had to take 10 -- and I had to pay to take 10 of them.
Still, I did attain the certification. What kept me going? Probably desperation -- and this is important. I would NEVER have read those books and attained that MCSE certification without being unemployed. If I were employed I would have had far better things to do with my time that sit in a room and read boring technical books so that I could pay money to take challenging technical exams that I might not even pass for a certification that I would have probably had to have quit my then-current employer to get paid for.
That is why I can say that my unemployment was a golden opportunity. Unemployment FORCED me to do something that I would never have done. It forced me to further educate myself. It was mentally very painful and dissatisfying, but it was absolutely a positive thing in the long run, because I made the most of it. Within 3 months of finishing my certification, I had been hired to a position that required me to use the MCSE certification that I had acquired. If I had no MCSE certification, my unemployment would have continued, because I would NOT have been hired for the job.
If you do not both understand and feel that experience, education, personality, and character are the qualities that an employer looks for, then you will have a hard time wanting to better yourself while you are unemployed. It is so easy to fall into the trap of wasting time and feeling depressed. Yet, because I knew that bettering my education would make me more valuable to near and more future employers, I was able to set a goal. That did not mean that it was easy to motivate myself to study and pass the exams, but I had a goal that I could focus on. Even though I did not feel like studying, I was able to force myself to study because I knew that I would get a return on my effort and there was very little else that was productive for me to do.
If you find yourself unemployed, or underemployed, earnestly seek to increase your value to your next employer. It does not have to be your education, for you could do something that would improve your experience. Maybe there is something that you could not have done while you were employed that you can now do that you are unemployed. Maybe it would be so valuable that it will be better in the long-run that you were unemployed, rather than working. Maybe you'll look back in the future and say, like I did, “I sure am happy that I was unemployed, for I owe a portion of my career success to the things that I was forced to do while I was unemployed.”
If you do not give it any thought, you might err and believe that unemployment has to be comprised of wasted time, depression, and endless job searches. After reading this you should see that unemployment could be one of the best things to happen to you, if you use it wisely.
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Peter Suchy has sinced written about articles on various topics from Family Concerns. Peter Suchy is the author of the books Gainful Employment and How to Build Wealth. To read sample chapters of his books or to view his blog, visit
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