Have you met a woman and then found out that you no longer were attracted to her or wanted to end it? The only reason a guy would want to get a woman to be turned off and move on is if he does not find her attractive and she is stalking him. This is where the problem lies when trying to get a woman to not like you anymore it often makes them even more attracted to you. The more you resist from these women the more they seem to come back more and more. Also if you are honest with them and yourself they like that too so which in turn attract them more.



So now you are asking, is there anything I can do to change this? This is what most people would call a high quality problem and yes there is. If you want to know the quickest, fastest and best way to solve this so called problem you have then all you have to do is be honest with the woman. Tell her that you do not feel the same way as she does and she needs to move on because she will only be hurting herself by prolonging the stay.

Most people believe that this cruel and the wrong thing to do when it is by far not. Honesty is the best policy and they would prefer to know than look like idiots. Some people don’t decide to do this and it just keeps on going until a change happens, though these “people" enjoy the attention they are getting so that is the only reason they don’t do anything about it. They will whinge about it saying how annoying the person is but when in fact if they where honest to themselves and the other person the issue could be solved in a matter of seconds.

Ok so what happens if you are honest with the woman and she still is persistent and it makes it WORSE and she becomes a stalker or an even worse stalker than they already where. When you are honest with the woman and you set your rules and boundaries they might take a while to get “over you" but they will accept it in the end and move on. Just know that if you don’t want them in your life it is a decision away.

You can find out what that specific woman does not find attractive in men in an indirect way and start portraying those qualities and spend time and effort into making her unattached to you. You could also just be honest to her and let her know how you feel.

There is something I strongly don’t believe in doing and that is assuming and accusing verbally and if this woman has said to you that she is attracted to you and she likes you then you can and should be honest with her and tell her that you don’t feel the same way though you would make a great friend. If the woman has not said anything to you about her liking you but you know she does and it is obvious and she is annoying you then simply distance yourself.

I know being honest sounds so simplistic but most people tend to not do it in circumstances like this especially if they enjoy the attention. Women more so like attention than men but men still enjoy attention from woman even if they are not attracted to that woman.