Most men have probably tried different methods in order to get the women's attention. Some men tried to dress themselves nicely to attract the female species. Wearing apparels that looks like it got out straight from the cover of the magazine is an effective way to boost men's confidence. Others try to dazzle women with their shiny silver necklace, rings and necklace.



This is what some men calls accessorizing. However, this sends out a wrong signal at times, unless you want to portray yourself as a pimp. There are those who just show their luxury cars in order to impress the women. Having these things are nice but they are not certainly cheap.

There is a cheaper way if you really want to get the woman's attention and one of the best ways would be having a camera. Most men probably do not know is that a camera could be used in several of ways and getting to know women is one of it. Yes, you heard me right. All you need is a camera and you can really have a good conversation with women and the great thing about it is that they definitely would not have a hint of what is coming.

The great thing about having a camera is you can ask any women to take their picture. In most instances they would oblige. Rarely do they reject such an offer. Trust me I have been there and done it several times. What surprised me is that nobody rejected my offer since. I realized that women like being the center of attention and that is what a camera does. It perfectly fits that purpose. Women like to be special and when you asked permission of taking their picture they would really feel that. The key is how you ask permission. I usually tell them that she has a nice feature that perfectly fits the background and they would smile at first, afterwards they would oblige.

Men should certainly have cameras. In this way they could be unique and it is definitely better. Approaching as a photographer would really let her guard down because it is such a subtle approach. It is a nice way to start a conversation. She would not see you as an aggressor because you set the mood in a light and friendly manner. The camera became a tool to lighten up the mood. Now, that is a best way to use a camera.

The camera could give you the confidence that you need to approach women without being aggressive or being intrusive. You could start of having a decent conversation afterwards. However, keep in mind that having a camera does not entitle you to be a jerk. It is just a first step. The actions you initiate afterwards will be left to you. It can be used as a tool to effectively close in the gap but you still need to be able to establish a decent conversation to make it more interesting.