Basically, I’m a happy guy. I love to laugh. I’m married to beautiful, thoughtful, supportive wife. I’m living my childhood dream. I’m a doctor. A friend of mine sent me an e-mail that touched a nerve. It was about happiness. The first paragraph reported that polls show that vast majority of Americans are unhappy with the direction of our country and our President’s leadership. The e-mail went on to berate Americans for being unhappy. We have a great economy, it said. We have jobs and a roof over our heads. It went on and on then ended with the question - what is there to be unhappy about? I thought about this e-mail for a little while then I wrote the following -
Our unhappiness is clear. We should be unhappy. When we are lied to by you’re your parents you’re unhappy. When people you trusted, people you poured your heart, soul and dreams into turn out to be con-men, you’re unhappy. Vice President Cheney stated, “There is no doubt that Saddam Hussein now has weapons of mass destruction. There is no doubt he is amassing them to use against our friends, against our allies, and against us. And there is no doubt that his aggressive regional ambitions will lead him into future confrontations with his neighbors -- confrontations that will involve both the weapons he has today, and the ones he will continue to develop with his oil wealth." None of this was true.
When a Black man who is running for president of the United States in the 2007 is called a “Halfican" by several leading right wing commentators and there is no action taken against them, I’m unhappy. When those same commentators play a song called, “Puff the Magic Negro" sung in Al Sharpton’s voice and it’s about Barack Obama and these commentators are still on the air, I’m unhappy.
When politicians stand up and say that we need to end this war like John Warner (Republican Senator from Virginia) and then vote against timetables, troop withdrawal and giving troops some time away from the front, yep, I’m unhappy.
When the average family has 2 incomes and still can’t make ends meet, I’m unhappy. The average income for the top 20 Hedge Fund managers was $654 million last year. Average! WE have a system in place where if you are born rich you can’t lose. If you are born poor, good luck!
Remember Mark Foley United States Representative from Florida? Remember the e-mails he sent to teenage pages? Initially the Republican House leaders and now the Democratic House leaders have refused to turn over documents to investigators based on a separation of powers argument. Because of this, the statute of limitations is about to run out on Mark Foley. He probably will not be charged with anything. Somebody should turn over something to Florida prosecutors because it is the right thing to do. Yes, I'm unhappy.
Back in January President Bush said, "To establish its authority, the Iraqi government plans to take responsibility for security in all of Iraq’s provinces by November. To give every Iraqi citizen a stake in the country’s economy, Iraq will pass legislation to share oil revenues among all Iraqis. To show that it is committed to delivering a better life, the Iraqi government will spend $10 billion of its own money on reconstruction and infrastructure projects that will create new jobs. To empower local leaders, Iraqis plan to hold provincial elections later this year. And to allow more Iraqis to re-enter their nation’s political life, the government will reform de-Baathification laws, and establish a fair process for considering amendments to Iraq’s constitution." None of this has happened. There has been no oil sharing revenue law. The Iraqi government isn't close to being able to take over its security responsibility. Promises were made. None of the promises were kept but yet we were supposed to believe that the surge is working. A major Sunni sheik, that met with the president when he came to Iraq earlier, was blown up near his house but yet we're supposed to believe Anbar province is a model of security and tranquility. General Petraeus used the exact phrases that White House officials including President Bush used to describe the success of the surge. His data did not agree with anybody else's including the GAO report, General Jones's report or the national intelligence estimate. When you look at his methodology, it was clearly flawed. No major network has said that the General Petraeus report was seriously inaccurate. I’m unhappy and anyone who watched any of those hearings should be unhappy also.
When six teens in Jena, Louisiana got arrested on second degree attempted murder charges and conspiracy charges I became more than unhappy. I was depressed. When three nooses got hung in a tree and the principal suspended the students at this school but superintendent overturned the suspension, I started taking Prozac. When black students staged a protest by standing under the tree and the town's district attorney told them that he could end their lives with the stroke of a pen, I increased my dose of Prozac. When a white man at a gas station pulled a shotgun and several black teenagers took the shotgun away from the man, the black teenagers were charged with stealing a firearm and no charges were filed against the man who originally pulled the shotgun. By this time, I'm thinking the Zoloft (another antidepressant) may be a better drug for me. Several white students beat up a black student. No charges were filed. Two to three days later one of the white students that was involved in the beating began to hurl racial epithets at the Black student who was beaten up. The student and several of his friends beat up the white student. The six black teenagers were charged with second-degree attempted murder. Yes the beat up white student went to the ER but was treated and released and even went to a party later on that night. This is not justice in a country that was founded on the rule of law. I just want fair treatment. If you are going to charge the blacks with attempted murder then give the whites the same charge. If you are going to let the whites off because “kids will be kids" then let the blacks off with the same reasoning. The problem here is not the students but the adults who allowed this situation to go out of hand and become so racial charged.
Inequality, lies and racial bias can make even the happiest person sad. The greatest thing about America is the promise in our constitution that we can and will do better. Now, that makes me happy.
I Am Happy About
There are many reasons living here in a Center City Philadelphia Condo makes me a happy person. I enjoy the view of the City Skyline and the cobblestone streets in Old City. Of course I also love the hustle and bustle. Particularly, here in Philadelphia, the history is something I have always been fond of. And we've got some of the best neighbors around.
But there are a lot of other great reasons to want to live here in Philadelphia. Important everyday things that can really help bring a little more happiness to our lives.
Think about it. Socialization with others is one of the most significant sources of happiness in a human being's life. Whether it's spending time with family or friends or contributing to the lives of others who may be less fortunate or just talking about a common-area garden briefly with a neighbor, as humans, we need to be around other people. (You rarely hear stories of overly joyful hermits who live sheltered lives all alone in a cabin in the middle of nowhere in Alaska like you might see on some WHYY special.) There is probably more than one local common-are garden to talk about here in center city condo life. There is definitely more than one neighbor to talk to too.
Nowadays, folks spend loads of time working. Actually, some studies show we are working an average of 500 more hours per year compared to about 30 years ago. That is without even adding in commute time. Add another 2 hours a day to that number and we're not leaving much time for recreation in our lives. That can't be good for our happiness? But if you lived in a Center City Philadelphia Condo and worked in Center City, you could walk to work (which would be good exercise, fresh air for you, and better for the environment) and you would probably save about an hour and a half per day from sitting behind the wheel at a standstill in traffic. And as a little bonus, you could go meet some friends on your lunch hour at your favorite restaurant or deli right here in the City to squeeze in a little happy non-work related conversation. It's like free recharge time!
Think of the good urban design here in the City as well as the effective public transportation. With these two great Philadelphia qualities, Center City Loft and Condominium owners are spending less and less time behind the wheel. Neighbors, sidewalks, front porches, parks, courtyards......everything you need to be socially integrated just steps from your front door. You can easily take a stroll to the supermarket, work , a museum, the movies, or your favorite clothing store. And if something is a few more blocks away than you think you can handle or if you are carrying lots of shopping bags, hop in a cab, on a bus, or on the subway. Believe me they are not few or far between here in town.
As a long time Center City Philadelphia resident, I am always surprised at just how "small town" this big town of ours feels. It is a rare occurrence that I can walk to the gym, or simply walk around my neighborhood of Old City, without bumping into at least one or two people I know. Or the overwhelming ability to recognize familiar faces. At the intersection of 12th and Spruce Street the other day, I was waiting for a couple with their baby stroller to cross the street. I recognized him from eighteen years ago when he was an art student. We lived in the same condo building on 15th and Spruce. at the time. He hadn't changed much. A few pounds, and a short beard later, and he still lives in town. And there is Mark and Paul, who own Zeke's Deli. They have been frying my eggs for years. No strangers there. Even the crazy lady who walks around town with a bed sheet over her head. Unique, but no stranger. I recall first catching sight of her "one in a million style" when I first moved into the Old City neighborhood in the early 1990's. Though I do reside in a fairly large urban area, there really is a sense of community. Even if it is simply the sense I get from recognizing familiar faces around Center City. The mailman for the southern residential portion of 19106? Same. The fed ex guy who continually blocks the small street behind my house? Same.
So we center city Philadelphians are lucky enough to spend more time engaging with friends, family, and our community, and less time commuting back and forth to work and running errands! Bottom line, living here in Center City Philadelphia can really bring more happiness to your life. If you don't believe me, I challenge you to give it a shot. And you too can keep tabs on the crazy lady who wears a bed sheet over her head as a kind of fashion statement. She's not too difficult to pick out of the crowd.
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