How many times have you been told you have to Network to find a job? The reasons are clear, the statistics show 87% of all white collar jobs are landed by networking. So why is it so hard? And what can you do to make it easier?
As a Job Search Coach for Executives and Technology Professionals I have heard many reasons and myriad complaints and I have seen the devastation to careers when executives, especially ?C? level executives don't network successfully. Very few people claim ease with introducing themselves and asking for help.
? I just can't ask people for favors.
? I am the one who helps.
? I don't want to be seen as needy.
? It is hard to start the conversation when it is about me.
? I hate cold calling.
Poor networking is the single largest barrier to landing appropriate new employment. If you learn how to overcome the obstacles you get more control over your job search. And ultimately, when you have control over your job search, you get better results, faster.
KNOW YOUR MESSAGE: Experience tells you the better prepared you are, the more likely you are to get the results you want. Next to each prospective contact, write down what outcome you hope for and notes on what to say. Be prepared with your elevator pitch and always have pen and paper ready if you are making telephone connections.
USE THE PHONE: If you craft an enticing phone message and deliver it with energy and conviction, you will probably receive an encouraging response. By contrast, if you send email, nuance is impossible to detect and in fact, you are more likely to misinterpret busy or style for rejection. A telephone call gives you opportunity to detect the positive response and create a bond.
CONTACT IN THREES: You have culled names from your contact lists of people who have worked for you and also have a list of people to whom you have been referred. Contact two people you know first. Leverage that success and confidence and call the third less known individual. Be sure to have a compelling message written down before you call.
CALL AT ODD TIMES: You are more likely to find someone at their phone at eight in the morning than ten. Executives are more likely to answer their own phones after six.
GET INTRODUCTIONS, NOT REFERRALS: When you do connect with someone willing to open doors, as for introductions that mention you will be contacting the individual. Anyone can say, ?Use my name,? but an introduction insures you will get a response.
Understand the code of networking; People want to help. They just need to know what help looks like. Typically, if you ask, "Do you know who is hiring?" you get a vacant stare for a response. Be specific in your request and you are likely to get what you need. For instance, ask for an introduction to a specific person or company. Use that company as an example of other introductions you would value.
Remember how good you feel when you can offer assistance to someone looking for a job? Why not allow someone else that same elation?
I Work Too Hard
An executive was quoted in Working Woman Magazine ?Women are the best bargains around... They think if they work harder, they'll be recognized.? Do we really want to be known as ?the best bargains around?? While we faithfully execute the job at hand, people around us are promoted to higher-paying positions. I believe there are several factors which contribute to this misconception. Women are more likely to value modesty, and we are cautious not to over-state our abilities. We prefer to have our work speak for itself, rather than pointing out our accomplishments to anyone. Meanwhile, our savvy colleagues have learned to speak up for themselves, perhaps even take credit for others? efforts, and ask for (sometimes demand) more responsibility and pay. Everyone is so busy doing their own job, they don't recognize our achievements the way we think they will. We are left with the jobs we have. Perhaps we decide that someone else was more ?qualified.? Perhaps we decide that things were done unfairly this time, but that things will change. We hold tight to our fantasy and to our current position with its corresponding pay.
Because we may define competency differently than men (see; Women in Those High Paying Positions Have Something I Don't Have, by Patricia Smith) we may tend to over-emphasize our mistakes, and under-emphasize our achievements. We are convinced that anyone who has performed less than 100% perfectly, accurately, completely, 100% of the time is not yet ready for another assignment. We stay in the same position longer. We convince ourselves that we will speak up and speak out as soon as we have earned that right. We watch others around us move into high-paying positions and wonder why such incomplete, shoddy work is rewarded.
We are more likely to want to perfect things where we are, before we will consider a promotion. ?I'm not ready to move on, I haven't done everything I want to with this department.? What's the difference how we leave things? As soon as we're gone, things will change, no matter what we have accomplished. We need to point out our accomplishments and our ability to learn and expand. We need to move on, leaving unfinished work behind.
Women are more likely to leave our jobs and careers in the hands of others. We let someone else decide what we can do and can't do, or when we are ready to move on. They're waiting for us to speak up. They decide we are happy where we are. We are seen as ?patient and cooperative.? While these may be nice attributes to have, they usually do nothing to increase our incomes. We need to take charge of our own careers and lives. Things won't turn out exactly as we plan, but it is a great improvement over leaving it up to others.
The way we work causes us to appear unqualified for other kinds of positions. Women are more likely to be task-oriented, rather than results-oriented. We pride ourselves on our ability to get a lot done and check off long lists of duties. We are more often comfortable taking orders, preferring to understand exactly how we are expected to perform a job. We want to be measured on how hard we work, what long hours we put in, and how accurate our work is.
The jobs in American business which pay more are much more likely to be results-oriented. They require the individual to focus on the end result; profit, profit margin, expense reduction. Tasks often have to be abbreviated, delegated, or abandoned, if they don't directly contribute to the end result. In fact, the higher paid the position, the more likely that the goal will be defined, but the job will not. ?Increase new business by $400,000, reduce the reject rate to .03%, increase productivity by 20%,? are goals which might define a position. The process for achieving these goals is as least partly undefined and must be authored by the person doing the job. To do the jobs which pay more, women must learn to live with these job descriptions. We must learn to work toward accomplishing goals. Many, many women have learned to live with these undefined positions, so can we.
Awareness is the first step. Small adjustments can make a big difference. This is a process, we don't have to be perfect at the game of business, no one is. We just have to be better.
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