Most parents start by picking from a list of their favorite names, or sometimes whatever pops into their minds. Celebrities and people in the media often provide name ideas. Consider how many have the name Elvis now, compared to decades ago. Names are almost always chosen because of a person that the parents admire, whether it's a friend, relative or celebrity.
Here are some important factors to consider when narrowing down the list of names for your dhild:
1. Uniqueness of the name. It is nice to have something different, but not too unique. My son has a half dozen friends named Ryan, obviously a popular name in the 90's! If the name is too unique or unusual, it may be difficult to pronounce.
2. The initials. Pay attention to your future child's initials, with and without middle names. Odd initials can cause them to be the butt of endless jokes. While the name Andrew Steven Smith may sound OK to you, young Andrew will never live it down! Same with my friend Bill Schaeffer, who always suffered from credibility issues!
3. What does the name mean? There are a lot of books and websites dedicated to the meaning of names. My son David ("beloved") certainly lives up to it's meaning. Some people choose their childrens names based on hopes for them, as in "Hope", but what kind of expectation are you setting by naing your child "Chastity"?
4. Think twice before you give them a name that will limit their future potential. While the name Tiffany is a beautiful name, how many CEO's have that moniker?
5. If you have a common sirname, consider a more unusual first name. If your name is Smith, it will help your child to not make them a John, Bill, or Mary.
6. Consider nicknames and common shortenings of names. People will use these whether you or your child like them or not.
7. Are you a teacher, or do you work with children on a regular basis? Good luck! It will be very difficult to find a name for your child that doesn't remind you of a student you once had. You know, what used to be your favorite name, now all you can think about is that troublemaker that was always being sent to the principals office!
After considering the above, it comes down to a decisin you make, about how you want your child named, and what appeals the most to you!
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Gone are the days when prospective parents simply gave their babies a family name. It's not as common as it used to to pass down a name from generation to generation. These days new parents are naming their kids after fruits and planets. Sound crazy? Well it's not. With all of the baby naming resources on the internet available to parents, it's no wonder so many weird names are popping up on birth announcements.
And not just weird names, people are taking regular, every day names and twisting them up. Have you ever seen William spelled "Wylliem"? No, I didn't think so. How about Jacob spelled "Jakub"? So where does all this creativity come from? The weonderful World Wide Web, of course!
There are more tech tools to help you name your baby than there are baby names themselves. One simple tool I found at babynamer.storkavenue.com is a form into which you input the sex, either Male, Female or Suprise!, the first letter and country of origin. Out comes a list of potential names for your baby. Another high tech baby naming tool is from babyzone.com. You input the sex of your baby and click a button. Tada! You've got a list of the most scrambled up names you've ever seen. Qucronar and Xetali are two of the names that showed up for female suggestions. I can't imagine anyone actually using those names, but you never know.
BabyNameWizard.com offers an "interactive visualization" of a name. What's that, you ask? Sounds fancy but it's really not. It's a nifty java program that graphs the popularity of names you type into it. You can type a few letters and get a graph for all the popular names starting ewith those letters. Pretty to look at but not useful for finding a special name for your baby.
Parenting.com is more staight forward with some lists to get you thinking creatively. There's a list of Cool Names, Comfy Names, Imported Names, Celebrity Names and Nature Names to mention a few. (For the record, comfy names are names like Fred and Billie.)
If you're into family approval, head over to babycenter.com with your list of potential names. They offer a handy tool to let your friends and family vote on the names you have chosen. Just input the baby names and email addresses of the voters and you're half way there to finding the perfect name that has everyone's approval.
If you're into more statistically correct methods, take a peak at pregnancy.org's Name-O-Matic tool. You pick a letter and get a very long list to choose from. Click on a name and see when or if it was ever on the top 100 list. Check all of the potential names on your list to find one that hasn't been over-used, unless of course you're looking for a name like that.
In case you're just looking for a normal name with a little pizazz, try familytrackers.com. They offer s imple tool to find alternate spellings for names you have chosen. Not only do they give different spelling variations, you'll see names that look and sound like your name, too. This baby naming tech tool can be helpful when you like a name but you want it to be a little different.
Whatever method you use when choosing a name for your baby, choose wisely and think ahead. Wandalyn might sound great today but how about when she's headed for an important job interview in 20 years? Or just imagine a shy little boy named Deveau trying to make friends in kindergarten when no one can pronounce his name. If you remember to think ahead and imagine your child at different times in his or her life, you'll most likely choose a name we can all live with. Like remembering names isn't hard enough for most of us already!
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