In this chapter Dr Cialdini gives interesting statistics: immediately after highly publicized suicide stories the number of people who die in commercial-airline crashes increases by 1,000 percent. The number of people who die in car crashes increases dramatically as well.
The author analyzes the reasons why so many people die in crashes after highly publicized suicides. The first suggestion is that people commit suicides because of stressful socio-economic conditions. While some people commit suicides in such conditions, the others because of stress, become angry or nervous or impatient or distracted and cause fatal crashes.
But the socio-economic conditions are not the reason. The increase in accidents happens only in places where the suicides are highly publicized. In the places with the same conditions or even worst, if the suicides are not publicized, there is no increase in airplane and car crashes.
Another suggestion is that usually the suicides of famous and respected people are most publicized. This makes people so sad that they become careless around cars and airplanes. It's a "bereavement" explanation. But from the statistics we know that "newspaper stories reporting on suicide victims who died alone produce an increase in the frequency of single-fatality wrecks only, whereas stories reporting on suicide-plus-murder incidents produce an increase in multiple-fatality wrecks only" (Influence p.141) We can clearly see that plane and car crashes are influenced by suicide stories, not by social conditions or sadness caused by deaths of respected people.
Another explanation comes from David Phillips and Dr Cialdini finds it brilliant. It's called "Werther effect". Werther is a hero from Johann von Goethe's novel "The Sorrows of Young Werther" In the book the hero Werther commits suicide. The book had strong influence on many young people in Europe two centuries ago. Many people committed suicide, copying Werther. The book was banned in several countries.
According to Phillips some people kill themselves in imitation. Others who for different reasons, like reputations, insurance policies etc., decide to crash airplanes or cars to make their suicides look accidental.
There is more interesting information in Cialdini's book, but there's no space in this article to write about it. For most scientists David Phillips' explanation seems the best one. Of course there are some quantum physicists now who find the law of attraction the best explanation for sharp increase in plane and car crashes after highly publicized suicides.
According to the law of attraction we attract what we mostly think about. When someone commits suicide and there's a lot about it in the news, people think about it, become emotional, think about death and attract death. Of course I can't scientifically prove the law of attraction, but I'm personally convinced that we attract the things we think about a lot, especially with emotion and when we worry about something.
About fifteen years ago when I traveled in India with a group of friends, two of my friends after reading about all bacteria and amoebas which can cause serious illnesses became very afraid of drinking water. We were all careful, but my two friends became so afraid that they used bottled water even to clean their teeth. The rest of us enjoyed traveling in India and didn't worry about amoebas. When we came back to Europe, my "worried" friends became sick and amoeba was found in their bodies. They wowed never to go to India again. The rest of us was fine, we didn't attract amoeba. Was it an accident that only my two "worried" friends got ill?
Later I moved to Thailand, where I felt very safe. I didn't worry about any dangers, because I'd heard from other foreigners that is a very safe place and my experience was the same. Later when I got cable TV, I also got a free subscription of the local newspaper, so I started reading it every day. Then I learned about fighting between students of vocational schools, when they not only sometimes kill each other, but also accidentally innocent people on the street sometimes die during the fights. I learned about suicides, murders and robberies. I was pretty shocked and not knowing about the law of attraction started thinking that it's not really such a safe place. Soon I saw a fight with knives between students on the bus I was traveling. I saw drivers fighting on the street. I started seeing more fights and aggression than ever before. Clearly I started attracting what I read about in the papers. Or was it just an accident?
When I learned about Manifestation and the Law of Attraction I stopped reading the newspapers regularly. I read them rarely. I sometimes watch the news, but I don't allow my mind to dwell on murders and suicides. You might think that it's bad and that I don't feel compassion for human suffering, but I think that dwelling on tragedies brings more tragedies. People talk a lot about war against terrorism, drugs and crime, and we have more terrorism, drugs and crime. Of course terrorism, drugs and crime must be eliminated, but by dwelling on them I personally can't eliminate them I can only attract them into my life, which I don't want.
"Where is light, there is no darkness". We can't remove darkness, but when we bring light there is no darkness. We can replace negative things with positive things. I'm not talking here about being naè've or foolish and not seeing the reality, but to change my current situation I need first to change my mental state. I need to think positively, and reading the news about crime, suicides and wars won't improve my life. It makes me depressed and stressed, and brings more depression and stress into my life, so I've made a decision to concentrate on positive emotions.
You don't have to believe in the law of attraction. There's no need for scientific proof. You can make an experiment. Stop reading about the bad news and try to read more about happy things. Avoid reading about crime, suicides and violence. Read more about great and successful people. Watch more comedies than violent movies. Continue your experiment for some time and you'll see the difference in your life.
Law Of Attraction God
Some what of a surprising message is this Law of Receiving. (That's Yoda-speak for, The Law of receiving has a surprising message.) In order to receive you must first give. Most people, myself included, have always been of the mind that you must get before you can give. In my mind I have always figured when I hit the big time I will then be able to give more in charitable contributions. Habitat for Humanity is my personal favorite. I donate sporadically. But according to this Law of Receiving the giving must come first. As Raymond Holliwell states giving, "is the first law of all creation." I believe it was the creators of the Chicken Soup For The Soul series whom I have seen giving a seminar on the benefits of giving. Considering the astounding success of their books, I am thinking they must know of what they speak. But I must say, I didn't really get it then. I did not really get it in the Law of Attraction sort of way. Giving opens up an avenue for receiving.
When I look back on my life I can see places where I was using this law and it was working very well for me but I wasn't even aware. There have been many times where I gave selflessly and gained much in return. Sometimes the rewards were monetary, sometimes spiritual, often times both. In my current financial situation, I can see where my money making strategy has been a bit weak. Certainly the financial benefits have had that same weakness. Bob Proctor says, "Giving always precedes and predetermines the reception, whether you're giving your thought, your work, your service, or your deed."
In my mind and most certainly in my heart, the idea that I am giving something that will benefit others makes the work so much more satisfying. It also gives the work a much higher value which can most certainly be financially beneficial. However, we must be aware that there is a right and also a wrong way to give. Careless and impulsive giving will get careless results. But there can also be as Proctor puts it, "careful, scientific giving." If our giving retards progress then there can be no benefit. Such as giving a person food instead of teaching him to feed himself would be detrimental. However giving the help a person needs to stand on their own can be powerful.
Proctor suggests we tithe 10% of our income before anything else. He says tithing ,"is an orderly, methodical plan of giving, which creates a steady flow of reciprocal good to be received." Not bad. He goes on to say, "tithing gives a person self-reliance, a confidence which enables him to build up a positive mental attitude which attracts success." That's what I'm all about, "attracting success."
Now after we give, there is more to do. Next we must prepare to receive. As Raymond Holliwell states, "This is the most interesting part, because our preparation shows our active faith." This ties in with what we know of the Law of Attraction. Our desire, and our attention to that desire, sets us up to receive what we desire. We may get what we expect to receive. Holliwell goes on to say, "The key to the law then is: We are continually drawing into life what we give and expect." so if we give in a lazy manner we can expect to receive lazy results. However in giving it our all we can expect results that may just exceed our expectations.
Imagine the results you will get when you give all you can give in a thoughtful manner. You may just surprise yourself.
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