The universe doesn't always just give you everything you want when you make pretty pictures in your head and say "thank you!" You, like most people, have probably already realized this. If it were this easy, we would all be millionaires. In fact, there would be so many millionaires, that being poor would become 'cool'... i.e. "Oh really, you're a millionaire? Yeah, I know lots of millionaires, but I decided to be poor... I like a challenge in my life!"
The universe is, however, always giving you opportunities to learn and grow. The question is "are you aware of these opportunities, and how are you responding to them?"
I borrowed this concept from Neuro Linguistic Programming. "There is no failure, only feedback!" More advanced students gradually work their way toward "There is only feedback!" Failure only exists because it is a concept we brought into being (some would say we did this through the law of attraction). Unless you have figured out some way that it is useful, you might as well let it go, and learn to view your ongoing experience in a constructive manner.
It is unfortunate, but much of what I have read and heard involving the law of attraction either doesn't emphasize (or completely ignores) the concept of feedback. The general description is that you just keep focusing on what you want, and then the universe will start answering you with an unending shower of stuff.
No matter what direction you take in your life, there will always be feedback. When you do something, and people react, or the environment changes, or your own point of view changes... this is feedback! Paying attention to it, and deciding how to alter your course based off it will determine whether you become a shocking success story, or just another self help junkie spouting empty wisdom.
When you try to learn something new, and it seems very difficult, this is feedback! It could mean that you just need to add a little more practice. It could mean you need to find a better instructor. It might mean that you aren't bringing the appropriate attitude into your learning experience. Or it might mean that it just isn't for you.
When you first begin to learn something new, repetition is incredibly important. Consistency of practice will lead to a powerful understanding of the material.
It is also important to consider the source of the teaching. Is it a book? Some things you can learn pretty easily from a book. Some things are nearly impossible to learn from a book. A qualified instructor can be invaluable assuming you have the time and resources.
It is important to always bring the best attitude that you can into any new learning. If you approach learning with "I'm no good at this!", "This sucks!", or "I just can't get it right!", then not only will you have a miserable learning experience, but you will never develop the level of performance that is possible with proper attitude. Work toward the attitude of "This is fun!", "This is getting easier and easier!", or just good old fashioned Zen emptiness.
When you are clever in your approach to learning, and you pay attention to feedback, you will be amazed at the depth of blessings the law of attraction can bring into your life!
Law Of Attraction Mate
Almost everybody has heard of the law of attraction at this point (not much of a 'secret' anymore). A quick look around, though, reveals that the planet isn't quite 'utopia', yet. Clearly there is something missing from the standard formula. Typically, gratitude and visualization are the primary techniques taught as the law of attraction. Understanding the concept of feedback is an important addition to this.
When you are using the law of attraction to draw what you desire into your life, it is important to pay attention to the changes in yourself, others, and your environment. I refer to these factors as 'feedback'.
Allow me to offer an example. Years ago I was in the Army. One of the many tasks at which you have to be proficient as an infantryman in the Army is land navigation.
Land navigation, or land nav, is basically being able to find your way around with a map and a compass. Land nav, just like life in general, can be fun, but it can also be tedious if you aren't paying attention. You have to use the compass to find direction; it is always important to know where you are going, and where that is in relation to where you are now. This is typically referred to as 'shooting an azimuth' in land nav. Once you find your direction, you look for a landmark along your azimuth, and then walk towards it. When it's this simple, land nav works just like the law of attraction should; you see your goal and you move towards it. Unfortunately, it's rarely that simple. In land nav, you don't always have a clear landmark along your azimuth, you sometimes have a large terrain feature (ponds, hills, ditches, trees, etc.) in your way, and sometimes it's just so dark you can't see where you're going even though you know the direction. So it is with the rest of life.
In your life there are likely to be many challenges on the way to your goals. Both your environment and your own unresolved issues from the past can stand in your way.
If you look at how much your parents make, and how much your closest friends make, you've got a pretty good idea of what the current cap on your own income is. There are exceptions to this rule (like all rules), but if you like playing these odds you might as well stick with lottery tickets. It might be useful to meet and socialize with people who are making significantly more money than you are, preferably in a field or business that you are interested in. On the other hand, if you are currently a software programmer, and you want to be a Cello instructor, there is probably a lot of work ahead of you; you will have to significantly change your environment.
Your own self limiting beliefs can your worst enemy on your path to success. If deep inside, you don't think you can succeed, then you won't. If you believe that wealthy people are constantly stressed out by managing money, then you won't be able to manage large amounts of money without being stressed out. It is good to frequently sit down and examine your beliefs surrounding goals in general, and your own goals specifically. Are they serving you? What changes could you make so they would work even better?
When you pay attention to internal and environmental feedback, you can truly unleash the power of the law of attraction in your life!
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