One of the biggest obstacles many of us have in this life is in dealing with the opinions of others. It's bad enough that you have your own fears and doubts but when you add that to the negative thoughts and words form others it can be detrimental in your ability to manifest what you want.



I met a man many years ago who told me a story about his first try at starting his business. It had been is life long dream to have his own business and he had been preparing and planning for it for many years.

When he first begin his business he was dating a woman who wanted to get married to him. In all appearances he seemed to be doing very well. In the beginning his business did very well, his client base was increasing daily and he could not be happier. Then it happened, all of a sudden he began to do very poorly. He began to loose clients quickly and somehow a dark gloomy cloud seemed to hover over his affairs.

He could not pin point what was happening but it seem like a super natural force had taken over his life. The reality was that there was something killing his financial flow and blocking his ability to attract more wealth.

This doom an gloom took over his whole body and it began to affect the relationship he was in until it came to a quick end.

Shortly after the relationship broke apart he business once again took an upward sing and the change was rapid. What could be the cause of that? He wondered to himself. What has so dramatically blocked his ability to attract the abundance that he was once again getting?

Being a very reflective man he began to inquire about what had changed in his life to cause the change. On further reflection it occurred to him that the woman in his life did not want him to be as successful as he was now getting.

Looking back he realized that every single night she complaining to him that money was not that important and that he should just maintain a small client base.

She was filled with fear that he could become too busy to spend time with her and also fearful that he would become too wealthy and no longer want her.

She bombarded his mind daily with these worried and in time those thoughts really affected his ability to manifest the sort of wealth that he was trying so hard to build for the both of them.

Not everyone has the insight to examine the people who block us form attracting the things that we want in life. Not everyone will have success with the law of attraction for this simple reason. We don't realize that we don't create on our own we are always being influenced by those around us.

It's the reason most wealthy people will tell you that in order to manifesting what you really want in life you must be in the presence of like minded people who will also life you up.