A child is often a wonderful addition in any wedding ceremony especially when you have children from a previous marriage or other young family members. There are many creative and meaningful ways to include them in the entourage or even in the wedding vows. But unfortunately children can be very unpredictable so it's best to assign them a task that is appropriate for their age. It is also important that you make them as comfortable as possible during the actual ceremony.

Be sure to tell the child early on about his task so he will be able to look forward to that day. Set a special day for shopping or fittings for dresses or tuxedos with a reward trip to an ice cream parlor afterwards.

Young boys and girls usually fit the roles of ring bearers and flower girls. It is a beautiful sight as the child is dressed in a beautiful gown or little tuxedo walking slowly down the aisle. This will definitely be a sight to behold in your wedding videography. Older children may also join the wedding entourage as junior bridesmaids and groomsmen. They may also be asked to act the role of ushers and usherettes. This will be a responsibility they can surely do well.

It is also a good idea to include them in the ceremony if they are musically gifted. Ask them to play an instrument or sing a short song while the bride and groom sign the marriage contract. Your guests will definitely enjoy this short entertainment. Older children may also be chosen to perform readings and possibly give a toast in the reception. Also assign them the task of handing out confetti as the wedded couple departs the church.

Another creative way for children to participate is to have a little bride and little groom to walk down the aisle before the bride's entrance. The little bride will wear a miniature version of the bride's wedding gown while the little groom will be in a tuxedo. This will surely be a hit with your guests and a delightful experience captured in your wedding videography.

One meaningful and sweet way to include them is to let your children contribute in the wedding vows. This is appropriate for couples who had children in previous relationships. The ceremony will be conducted in such a manner that all members of the new family will make promises of love and commitment to each other. It is best to include the names of the children in the wedding invitations so the guests will know they will be attending the marriage of a family.

It is important to make the event fun and enjoyable for the children so that they will not be bored easily. Tell them your expectations so they will know what to do. Give them simple instructions and explain this carefully. For children who will be attending the actual ceremony, place a spot tape on the floor so that they will not be confused on where to stand. Also suggest letting the children practice more than once during rehearsal so they will remember easily what they are going to do on the wedding day. Teach

There are many creative roles that children can partake in a wedding ceremony. Not only is it a great way to make them feel special but it also adds charm and creates a wedding that is both unique and memorable for you and your guests.