This is an area that we as men need to be very aware of. If we can understand what women are looking for in a partner then it makes it so much easier to get great high quality women in your life. The type of women that stimulate and excite you. Women are looking for a man of perceived high value that they can see as: Safe. Being able to be a provider (This comes back to women being maternal and looking for a partner who can provide for herself and her children.)



This is different though to a Gold Digger. A Gold Digger is a woman that we should feel no need to have in our lives; they are toxic and only look out for themselves.

Once they find someone with more money or status they will get rid of us quick smart. This is why we need to have a real connection with a woman, if you get that connection you will have her hooked.

Things that women are wanting in a man:

Confidence.

(Being able to carry yourself and talk with a fluent and confident tone is crucial to meeting women.)

A guy who is a good listener. (Women love to talk as they are very emotional creatures, so being able to listen is very, very important.)

A guy who is self sufficient. (She does not want to be your mother, e.g. cook, clean and iron your clothes for you.)

A guy who has an opinion, but is not over opinionated.

A guy who has a career, and is heading in the right direction. (Not someone who is always unemployed or can't hold down a job.)

A guy who one day would like to have children. (Remember women are born with strong motherly instincts they will one day want children, so it is a good thing to have an interest in having kids one day.)

A guy who shows her attention. (But not smothering.)

A guy with a good sense of style. (Because women love fashion and can appreciate a guy who takes care of himself and has an appreciation for fashion also.)

It is a good start to have these top areas addressed. It like all things is a gradual process, things take time, so don't be in a rush.

Take a look at it one step at a time, or address the areas that you think need to work on. Women want a man who has a perceived high value that does not mean you need to be rolling in cash, have a flashy car.

You just need to have your life in order, for example have a career, look like you take care of yourself through your sense of style, having good self confidence, being able to have interesting things to talk about.

Being able to tell a good story is important as this will get her juices flowing as you are a very exciting and intriguing proposition to her.

You create a high value without having to throw your money around, or tell her how successful you are, you're showing her that you are confident within yourself and that you already know that YOU have a perceived high value within yourself.

And having a high value within yourself, this will show through with your confidence and she will know that you're a man of high value. So try and look at the steps above and start with one of these steps today and get on the road to changing your life and the relationships you have with women.

TC

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