* There is no evidence that you value each other. Too much time together can create boredom and if this is something you are aware of then you need to start to tackle it



* There is a lack of communication. You or your spouse might be so caught up with your own stuff, the other person gets left somewhere along the way .Is it possible one or the other of you has misunderstood the situation? One of the ways around this is to speak. Sometimes mistakes can be uncovered when discussions take place. If you don't know how to talk any more, this could be a problem. You have to learn how to talk about your problems and if you want to save your marriage then this is something you will have to tackle.

* Your partner doesn't seem to notice you. Do they not appear to be interested in your day? Have they no curiosity whatsoever about what you have been dong with your time? Are they inclined to forget important dates like your birthday or possibly your anniversary? Don't you think that these could be the signs of a troubled marriage? Are you no longer the centre of their attention? Shouldn't they still like to do things for you? If you feel that your spouse has ceased to be bothered then you should think about trying to re-establish what you once had if you are to have prospect of rescuing your relationship. If you are aware that these things are appearing then you need to act now or it may be fatal.

* All the fighting has stopped. The verbal type I mean. The odd row here and there can be of benefit in any relationship. They at least mean you are communicating and many relationships rely on some element of bickering to clarify the issues that might lie between you. If you have stopped arguing, there can be many different reasons why but if arguments no longer trouble you and you don't engage in them or if they don't happen then it could be the sign of a marriage in trouble. It could show that you or your spouse are in the process of giving up.

* The intimacy seems to have gone. This isn't just sexual but can also mean hugging, kissing, the unexpected present, the bunch of flowers or breakfast in bed. It can be a demonstration that something is being misplaced. If it is a recent thing then it can often be resolved quickly but it could be another warning sign of a marriage in trouble.

This is the basic fact. You may still love one another, but it is still possible to slowly disengage and before you know it you are divorced and you are asking yourself, how? There are methods which you and your spouse can look at or you can try and save your marriage alone. Get some help on the troubles you have and start the process to get the marriage back on track.