When text messaging keep in mind that, just like in face to face encounters with a woman, there are rules to know and follow.
Rule 1: Never text to dodge a real conversation
A lot of men figure that a text message is much more safe than a phone call. True, but it will not consistently lead you to your goal. And that goal is to set up a date. The chances of seeing her again raises drastically when you get her on the phone and make plans as it builds comfort and familiarity.
Also, if you're texting because of your fear of interacting with this woman, then how will you ever hope to interact with her comfortably face to face?
Rule 2: Do not seek responses for validation.
Remove value seeking texts like, "What up?" or "What are your plans this afternoon?" Texts like this scream neediness, make you less attractive to women, and do not help spotlight your fun characteristics.
Take a look at some sample texts that are have been repetitively tested and proven effective...
"Your twin just walked past me wearing a purple sparkle fanny pack"
"Hi nerd! I'm sure you're operating at a level of 100% nerdiness today :) "
Rule 3: Abstain from over texting
She may be the only thing on your mind, but don't let her know that. Don't scare the bunny away! Text once, and if she replies, you may do so. But if she hasn't, then wait until the next day before trying again.
Try to place some space between text responses. Keep in mind, non-neediness means sexy because she will see you are in demand and have other romantic options.
When in doubt, pace her. If she texts you back right away, you can text her back right away, but if she takes 10 minutes, then so should you.
Bonus Texting Tip: Use texts to invoke the law of familiarity.
Once you have her number, text her as soon as you can especially if she is standing beside you. The situation is hilarious in itself plus give yourself triple points if it's an inside joke or funny text. Here are some...
"You have my number but please limit yourself to one per day ;)"
"Who is that sexy man you just gave your number to?"
Once she saves your number, you can be confident she is interested. But even more important, when you call later, she will have your number and caller id appear. There is even more chance for her to pick up the phone to a recognized number.
Master Of The Art
While certainly no replacement for long lovemaking, quickies are a great way to bring a little added excitement to the table. Many new couples indulge in the short and sweet because they can't keep their hands off each other - the quickie opens possibilities for more times, more places. Those who've been together awhile often don't invest as much time and energy into intimacy that they used to, claiming that there isn't the time anymore.
If you think there's a quickie coming on, then get ready for it. Example - you're both on your way home from work, and you know you're going to have to rush out the door once you get in. Think about what you have waiting for you at home, or that thing he does with his hands that you love. Try to imagine the last time you two got really hot and heavy. Learn to embrace technology - if you both have cell phones, text each other messages, which could range from how you can't wait to see him to something more explicit. This will get easier over time.
For those with a little bit of exhibitionism in them, the quickie is the ideal method for sex anytime, anywhere. It adds excitement to an act a couple may have done hundreds of times, knowing that sex is a possibility at almost any moment. This could range from the closer to home - like on your stairs or bathroom, or a secluded spot in your backyard - to the public - change rooms, car, at a party. The possibilities are endless, depending on how bold you both are.
Quickies aren't only limited to intercourse. It's also a great way to play around with oral and manual sex. While other times you may see how long you can tease each other, small windows of opportunity challenge you to finish them off quickly. You'll each develop techniques that send you through the roof in only minutes.
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Once you get your libido up and running, and realize how much fun quickies are, you'll look for little windows of time to please you and your partner. We're sure you'll want to thank us for these tips!
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