Take a piece of paper and draw a line down the centre of the page and call the line "Success". We know that about 90% of people today are on the left hand side of the line. These people often stop about a centimetre or two before reaching the line because they either can't stretch themselves to get out of their comfort zone, or simply quit. How sad this is?
For those of you who have read "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, let me remind you of the story of Mr Darby. He was a part of the gold rush fever and one day discovered the shining ore. He borrowed money from relatives and friends, bought the necessary machinery to bring the ore to the surface, but after only digging up only 3 car loads of the ore, the mine went 'dry'.
HE QUIT.
He sold his machinery to a junk man for a couple of hundred dollars and took many years to pay back his loans.
The junk man however was smart. He called in a mining engineer and returned to the site to have it checked out. The engineer advised that Mr Darby had not been familiar with the fault lines of the ore, and he reckoned that the gold would only be three feet from where the digging had been halted.
And you know what? That is exactly where the gold was found.
JUST THREE FEET from where Mr Darby had stopped digging.
The junk man took in millions of dollars of ore from that mine - simply because he knew enough to seek expert counsel.
This story gives us not one, but two lessons to enable us to cross the success line.
1. Think long and hard - failure is only temporary - DON'T QUIT.
2. Seek advice from an expert - there is always someone who knows more than you
I hope many of you have the courage not to quit, and the humbleness of seeking advice when you get stuck.
Understand that before success comes into our lives, we often meet with much temporary defeat, and sometimes even failure. When this defeat overcomes us, the easiest and most logical step to take is to quit. That is what most people do.
Speaking to and learning from the most successful people today, their greatest success came to them just one step BEYOND the point at which defeat had hit them.
As Napoleon Hill says "Failure is a trickster with a keen sense of irony and cunning. It takes great delight in tripping one when success is almost within reach."
We all want to cross our own "Success Line" so, when the going gets tough for you, remember how Mr Darby QUIT unnecessarily.
Moore Crossing The Chasm
When I was young I accomplished an amazing feat. I learned how to play the guitar. By the time I was 17 I played in a band with a group of musicians and music became more challenging with each day. As I look back now I wonder when I began believing I could do that. At 10 years of age I used to watch my dad play his guitar, play the harmonica in accompaniment, and sing the verses to some great country songs as he entertained family and friends that dropped in at the old homestead. At some point I became a believer. I said to myself, ?I can do that? and that is when I picked up the guitar for the first time at 12 years of age and began plucking on the strings. Five years later I was entertaining in clubs for a living.
We watch, we desire, we believe, we do. That is the natural course of events. But Frank Gaines points out an important detail I did not mention. His words became the quote for today. He said, ?Only he who can see the invisible can do the impossible.? What I left out was the invisible part. We watch, we desire, we see the invisible happening in our mind, we believe, we do the impossible. That's more like it. At some point when the desire starts to build up, our imagination starts to go to work. It conjures up pictures in our mind. I started to see me behind that microphone instead of my daddy playing those songs and entertaining the family.
Now you may be working up a new dream right now. You watched, you began desiring, but then for some strange reason nothing happened. Well don't be so surprised. If you are any older than 25, you could very well be stopping your dream by sabotaging it yourself. That's right! You probably started with the I cant's. ?I can't do this? and ?I can't do that? started to erase that picture you were working on in your head. That invisible picture in your mind is so important. That's what fuels the desire which makes us believe more and more that we can do something. Maybe it was ?That's impossible? that got in your way. That will do it every time. Those negative tapes we play in our heads will destroy what the imagination is working on all the time.
We must learn to ignore the negatives. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, ?That which dominates our imaginations and our thoughts will determine our lives, and our character.? I started to play the guitar much earlier than 12. I started playing it in my head by 8 years old I would imagine. The ?I cant's? and ?That's impossible? never had a chance. When you are young its easier to believe in the invisible.
What dreams are you working on? Have you been experiencing difficulty in seeing the invisible? You must learn the secret of Emerson. You must allow your mind to be dominated with thoughts, invisible thoughts of you doing that thing you are dreaming about. In time you will pass what has been known as ?The belief barrier?. Like a jet that beats the sound barrier you must put your invisible thoughts into high gear and break the belief barrier. You will know when you have done so. It will be much like the experience I had when I played my first song on the guitar. Feelings of well being will rush through your body and you will know you have accomplished an amazing feat. You will be empowered as you learn to believe in yourself again.
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