While it seems to be good broadcasting on television, radio, the net, newspapers, and trade paperback magazines, hearing what we hear in the media and reading what we see in different publications may not always be the best advice for you. Everyone has scenarios that are different than others. Coming attached to what others have done in the past to overcome their obstacles may not apply or be beneficial for you. Life is not a one size fits all experience.



While it seems we all do the same thing each and everyday; we all are different and need to find the right advice for our own circumstances and situations. What works for you, may not work for the next person. We all go through different challenges at different times; yet each case is different because we are individuals with our own mindset and we decide on how to handle our own problems. I’m all for following the advice of others especially people in certain professions and others who have greater insights and more life experience than me. I’m limited to whom I’d get advice from though. Being a Christian sometimes makes this decision easier to a certain degree, but then, by the same token; it makes it tougher. Think about it; do everyone you do business with; believe the same way you do? I do attempt to surround myself with Godly advice. Proverbs 11:14 says “where there is no counsel the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety." The bible is very clear on who should give Christians’ counseling.

I can remember when me and my former spouse went to see a psychotherapist for marriage counseling; this therapist claimed to be a Christian yet there were no biblical foundation in his counseling at all. I then told my wife; I was not going back because the therapist was not telling me anything I already didn’t know. And besides that, he wasn’t giving any good advice as well. I quit going because I was not comfortable with the conversations I had received from him. It’s important you and I get good counseling though from someone who’s realistic and practical. The best type of counseling is from someone who’s going to be frank and honest with you; telling you things you really rather not hear; but it’s for your benefit and it could help improve your life if you take heed to it. Over the years I have had good counselors in my life through both professionals and trusted friends and colleagues. Their impact and advice has helped me become a better and more mature person.

While it’s good to get advice from others; it’s more important to work on ourselves to improve our relationships and lifestyles. Seeking wise counsel is a must today; when you find yourself in trouble or need some other opinion rather than your own, be not afraid to get some help and advice, it will relieve you of your tension and can possibly help solve your problems rather sooner than later making your life much more pleasant and balanced. You do not have to experience life like a “roller-coaster" ride because help is always available. You just have to ask for it.

Your child or children are an asset to you and not a liability. Look, Children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of your womb is a reward. Psalm 127:3. If you are struggling with your parental rights and responsibilities sign-up to receive tips on life in general and I can help you with your parenting concerns.

Copyright © 2007 by Clark A. Thomas