She may be your baby girl, but with each passing year she's growing toward womanhood. Before long, you will be celebrating hallmark moments in her life such as a significant birthday, bat mitzvah, a Quinceanera, prom, graduation from college, and beyond. In between, are simple moments in life that deserve special consideration too; straight A's on the report card, making the basketball team, learning to drive, or simply for being your beautiful girl.
Any parent of a daughter knows the moments are fleeting. You want to capture them forever, but how? And more importantly, you want to give her something that will help her remember those moments as well. For decades, charm bracelets have served as important symbols of a young woman's life. In the 1950s when a girl turned 13, her parents presented her with a charm bracelet to mark the occasion. She decorated her charm bracelet with charms that represented her hobbies, talents and dreams for the future. When she became a grown woman, the charm bracelet followed her into adulthood, marking her marriage and entrance into motherhood with new charms.
Today's charm bracelets have come of age, so to speak. While the traditional look of yesteryear can still be found, the Danish-inspired charm bracelets offer a lovely and whimsical touch that will grow up with her. As she reaches new milestones in her life, the charm bracelet can be decorated with interchangeable charms according to her preferences and interests.
Occasions for Giving a Charm Bracelet
Depending on how a young girl cares for her things, parents might consider presenting their daughter with a charm bracelet during her preteen years. Perhaps they choose and more traditional sterling silver or gold charm bracelet, later to be replaced with a Danish-inspired piece to be worn in her young womanhood. In whichever case, there are endless opportunities to show your daughter how much she means to you.
1. Hallmark Birthday
Ipods and Jonas Brothers aside, the tween teen of today is sophisticated, able to appreciate things that girls her age decades ago might not have. A charm bracelet for a 12th or 13th birthday shows you recognize the young woman she's becoming. Fresh and flowery charms, Murano glass beads and sterling silver creations can be used to symbolize her interests and pursuits at this young age. For the Sweet 16 princess, a sterling silver or gold bracelet decorated with charms such as her birthstone, a monogram and a sterling silver flip flop celebrate the carefree days of youth. Later, when she reaches 18 or 21, you can add a semiprecious or 14K gold charm to her growing collection.
2. Graduations
It seems like yesterday she was graduating from kindergarten, now she's taking the walk across the stage for high school, college, or her MBA. Where has the time gone? Celebrate her amazing academic achievements with an equally amazing gift that shows her your pride and support at this new stage of her life. For the girl who is true-blue to her school, maybe a charm bracelet in her school colors is in order. Or perhaps you might go the route of a sports-themed bracelet to recognize her athletic achievements. The sky is the limit when it comes to creating your daughter's charm bracelet.
3. Confirmations
Religious confirmations are special moments in your daughter's life. Whether it's a church confirmation, bat mitzvah or Quinceanera, a charm bracelet can help mark the moment when a girl is becoming a young woman. If these occasions are not a part of your religious observances, consider holding a special tea or luncheon in your daughter's honor and invite special women who model what you'd like your daughter to become. As a part of the occasion, have guests share wisdom from their own lives and present your daughter with her own charm bracelet - a symbol of her exciting future.
4. Engagements, Marriage, Motherhood
As she becomes the beautiful woman you've imagined for years, there are significant moments that are especially exciting. After all, this is why you worked so hard all those years - to see her become an independent adult. Whether it's the announcement of her impending marriage, a bridal shower of even the special day, a charm bracelet from her family will be gift she'll treasure always. When she enters into motherhood, a charm bracelet is the perfect gift to mark this momentous occasion. Include the birthstones of the father, mother and new baby. Present her with a new birthstone charm with the birth of each child. Hopefully, that will include granddaughters and you can look forward to starting the tradition all over again.
Mothers And Daughters Relationships
In an interview with Deborah Tannen, whose new book, You're Wearing That?
Understanding Mothers and Daughters in Conversation, has just hit the top sellers list, the New York Times and Tannen have this exchange:
"Q. Many of the women you've interviewed for your new book complain of mothers who criticize their appearance. Are they right to be annoyed?
A. "Right" and "wrong" aren't words a linguist uses. My job is to analyze conversations and discover why communications fail. The biggest complaint I hear from daughters is: 'My mother's always citicizing me.' And the mother counters, 'I can't open my mouth; my daughter takes everything as criticism.'
But sometimes caring and criticism are found in the same words.
When mothers talk about their daughters' appearance they are often doing it because they feel obligated to tell their daugher something that no one else will.
The mother feels she's caring. The daughter feels criticized. They are both right.
What I try to do is point out each side to each other. So, the mother needs to acknowledge the criticism part, and the daugher needs to acknowledge the caring part.
It's tough because each sees only one."
Tannen adds, "If you understand how conversational styles work, you can make adjustments in conversations to get what you want in your relationships."
This is true for conversational styles between sellers and buyers as well. Any seller's first challenge is to get the attention of the other person.
Often, the language sellers use gets in the way of that. Sellers have a way of talking that is instantly recognizable to the rest of the world. And in my classes, thousands of people, themselves in sales, say that when a seller starts talking, they want to run the other way.
How would you know if you come across like one of those sellers people love to hate?
Here are two tell tale signs:
1. They speak to us in technobabble - as if they forgot how to speak like a normal person. Glyconutrients that impact at the cellular level is not how normal people talk. Save the jargon for talking with each other. Sellers must relearn to speak in a human voice if they want to engage consumers - that's us, all of us. We want to speak to people who speak our own language.
2. They hype. E.g. They make big promises about what will happen when the person buys their thing - but how can they keep a promise about someone else's future? Or they give us the bombastic boasts - "We are positioned to become the preeminent provider of XYZ..." But no one that matters is listening. Consumers have become immune to this kind of fake communication.
Attention is in short supply. No one has time to give you their attention. To get it, you have to tell them something interesting, and in the first ten seconds. One way is to learn to tell an authentic story - yours, using a human voice that others can instantly relate to. (See "If My Product's So Great, How Come I Can't Sell It?" for suggestions.)
If you can't get someone's attention with the words you use, how can you hope to start a relationship?
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