Call the interviewer, thank him or her for the interview and say you'd be grateful for an objective appraisal of the meeting, and of you as a candidate. Say that if you're making mistakes in your job search, you don't want to repeat them. Encourage the interviewer to be frank, and be sure to take detailed notes of the response. If the interviewer is candid and open, you'll know exactly what perceptions you have to change to turn a loss into a win.
When you learn what the interviewer's concerns about you are, and it is a perception you can fix, ask for another interview:
"Thank you for being so straightforward. What you've told me will be very valuable to me. I guess I'm uneasy in interviews, and I made some mistakes. It's clear I did not make a very good case for myself. But I'm confident I have everything it takes to do a first-rate job for you. I'd like another chance to prove it to you. I'd like to introduce you to the real me. Will you give me the opportunity to come in and talk to you again?"
Sure, it's a long shot, but if the interviewer is impressed with your moxie and perseverance, you just may get the meeting you want. Armed with the knowledge of what got you rejected the first time, you have the opportunity to re-position yourself in a more appealing way this time around. In a sense, you get to learn all the right answers, and then take the test again.
Even the interviewer who rejects you, finally and past all hope, can still be a useful resource in your job-search campaign. Ask for a critique of your interview performance, and use what you learn to strengthen your approach. Enlist the interviewer in your job-lead network by asking for counsel, and for job leads. You'll find that even though an executive has turned you down for a job, he or she may nevertheless become a strong booster for you, and open doors to other opportunities.
Remember that your whole career never rides on one interview. Even if you don't get an offer, the meeting still has important value -- training for the next interview. Learn from it, and move forward confidently.
Never worry that you're going to blow an interview. Walk through the door and play to win. The absolutely worst thing that can happen is that you don't get the job, and that's not a disaster. You didn't have the job offer when you came in, so you're no worse off than you were before.
There are more jobs, more interviews. You start with a clean slate in the next interview, at the next company. There's no time limit. You play till you win.
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A resume is a marketing tool and I encourage job seekers to position their accomplishments in the best possible light. However, it is critical that all information reported on the document is accurate and something you can back up with facts if questioned. Here are some of the ways I see job candidates crossing the line of ethical resume writing practices and some suggestions for creating a more authentic presentation of your qualifications.
Exaggerated results.
Never make up business results assuming no one will be able to validate them. You must be able to back up any information you write on your resume with proof during the interview. But this does not mean that you must have exact figures in order to mention the accomplishment on the resume. It is fine to show results with approximate dollars, percentages, or numbers as long as you can have a discussion around how these results were achieved. The goal is to show impact, not statistics. For example, if you know you used to spend at least 4 hours per week on a particular task and you then automated the process and it is now done in the click of a button, it is fine to say that you decreased time spent on this task by 4 hours or that you virtually eliminated the time spent on this task.
Claiming full ownership of a project.
Frequently our accomplishments are achieved as part of a team effort. Never claim full ownership of a large-scale initiative if the results should be attributed to the team. Use phrases such as "as part of a team", "co-producer", "co-author", etc. to clearly communicate your value without misrepresenting your achievements.
Making up job titles.
If you were in a director role, don't state that you were the SVP. However if your job title was not truly representative of your responsibilities, consider tweaking the title to make it more relevant or putting an alternative title in parenthesis.
Fudging dates.
Don't alter dates to make a gap look shorter. Most hiring authorities are interested in the number of years you were employed at an organization, not the months and years, so consider just using years to record your chronology, but be prepared to discuss the exact dates if asked. If the gap spans a year or more, create a clear explanation of what you were doing during that time period right on the resume. For example if you were caring for your children or a sick parent, be transparent and say that on the resume
Listing a degree you never earned.
Information on degrees is pretty easy to verify. If you attended college but didn't graduate, list the course of study, school name, and location, but leave the degree off.
Putting jargon on your resume you can't support.
If you have added keywords to your resume to describe your competencies, make sure you know the meaning of those keywords and can explain them during an interview. Don't just copy them from a job posting or someone else's resume because they "sounded good." You will compromise your credibility with the hiring authority if you can't speak to everything on your resume.
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