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They do get involved with other people, ask them to go out with them quite a number of time sand gradually get into a deeper relationship starting from the first date.

But after sometime when the other person asks for something more they say curtly that they were not ready for this. This is what is simply disgusting. You should not drag others into dating you until and unless you are completely prepared yourself.

In fact many are there who step out from the dating affairs giving a lame excuse just because they were not aware of the consequences. But if you are such a kid who does not know what responsibilities can arise from dating then this is not your cup of tea, not yet.

How to prepare?

First of all you need to understand that the person, who is asking you for a date, already likes you and wish to know more about you. If you are not ready to open up in front of him or her then the best way is to deny the date instantly in a polite tone. It is better for the other person because he will not get hurt later. Now it might happen with you that after you went for out on the very first day with the person, you did not like quite a few things about him.

If this is the case then be bold and tell him clearly that this cannot go further. Some of you were into a steady relationship in the past. Go for another date or accept a dating proposal only when you feel that you are completely over the past affair. Otherwise you will not only be deceiving the other person but also spoiling your time. If you had a bad past then make sure that you are capable of disclosing that to the date because no relationship would be healthy if you are not honest.

Then the final important preparation that you need to take before dating someone is to turn your attitude into positive attitude. Always be ready for rejection because this is a common thing in dating and never let your confidence level go down because of this.

Being scared will spoil half of the date. So make sure you are perfectly relaxed while going for a date. Start preparing yourself and see how interesting dating could be.

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You finish the last of the popcorn and realize you need a smoke. The urge to have a cigarette strikes every time you eat. You glance at the screen mournfully one last time before getting up and exiting the theatre to have your all important cigarette.

A few days after the movie theatre incident, you manage to set yourself up a date. You decide to take her to a fancy restaurant that you've heard good things about. The date goes well, and you sit contentedly after dinner, listening as your date tells you about her day.

You need a smoke. The urge grips you in its iron fist and your date's voice falls away into nothingness. She's still chattering on, but you're eyeing the door longingly. You excuse yourself, to your date's dismay, and exit the restaurant to have your cigarette.

Later, you wonder why your date never returned your calls.

During all of these incidents, and many others like them, you try to ignore the fact that your smoking habit is playing havoc with your life.

How can you have a good social life when you're constantly catering to your addiction? You're forced to smoke outside, when in public. You feel like less of a person, and other people give you odd looks when they see you standing outside in the freezing cold, just to have a few more drags of your cigarette.

What's worse, you have to hide your smell. The smell of cigarette smoke hangs about you in a cloud. People cringe from the stink, and your nicotine stained teeth have gotten worse over the years, so that now they are immediately noticeable when you smile.

Your self confidence plummets. You no longer can climb a flight of stairs without puffing for breath, even though you are only thirty seven years old. Even the tips of your fingers and the hairs of your moustache are stained a perpetual yellow colour.

Years later, you look back at all the missed opportunities. Smoking has prevented you from living your life to its fullest.

Although this sad story is fictional, it's happening all over North America. The instances may be different, but the result is the same. More and more, people who smoke are being ostracized from society.

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