You see, even though guys that can pull these off enjoy not only success with women straight out of a fantasy world and typically get women obsessed with them, with a fast pick-up comes a big problem...
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SOMETIMES FAST LAYS DON'T BECOME RELATIONSHIPS
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Sometimes a fast pick-up becomes a one-night stand, and never converts into a relationship.
And well, if that was your intention, fine.
But a lot of times, you DO want to see the woman again - or possibly start a
RELATIONSHIP with her.
Here's something you might not already know - EVERY woman I have slept with in the past 2 years has been under 4 hours.
And EVERY. SINGLE. ONE. wanted to see me again...
Am I saying this to brag? Hell no.
I'm only saying this so that you can realize the immense amount of value I can offer you as a client of mine, and to prove a very important point:
"POTENTIAL TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL HAS *NOTHING* TO DO WITH HOW
FAST YOU SLEEP WITH HER"
In fact there are three major keys to continuing an intimate relationship with a woman...
And I feel it's time to debunk a few myths about this.
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3 MYTHS ABOUT FAST PICK UPS
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MYTH #1: You must "build comfort" with a woman for 7+ hours before sleeping with her.
As I stated before, it has nothing to do with the amount of time you spend with her before you sleep with her.
In fact it has almost NOTHING to do with anything you do before you sleep with her in fact, the secret lies in what you do AFTER you sleep with her.
I have got it down to an exact science. A series of actions and behaviors that practically guarantee she will not only see you again, but also be borderline obsessed with you...
Nothing fancy, no routines or lines... just natural behaviors that a person can learn in less than five minutes.
Would you like to know the REALITY of this situation?
The reality is some of the hottest, most intelligent women I have dated LOVED the excitement of getting physical really fast.
It's straight out of the movies, and very few guys can pull it off skillfully.
MYTH #2: You need to reassure her that you will see her again before sleeping with her.
Many guys try this... they imply that the girl is "relationship material" or that he definitely wants to see her again.
Man... what a way to kill intrigue right off the bat...
Guys do this and tend to come on wayyyy to strong. They appear too interested, too needy, to desperate to get a girlfriend.
But at the same time you should NEVER imply that it's a one night stand, or that you're just interested in bed.
This isn't very effective either...
MYTH #3: You have to be great in bed the first time you sleep with her.
One of my good friends, Julian, who is admittedly bad in bed and only lasts for about 3 minutes converts girls like *CRAZY*.
Point being, he is NOT good in bed (his choice), and STILL gets girls so crazy about him, they won't leave him alone.... (so he ends up playing Gears of War on his XBox360 while they sit there naked, watching him.)
At this point you may be thinking...
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"BUT VIN, THIS IS TOO ADVANCED, I STILL HAVE
PROBLEMS PICKING UP AND SLEEPING WITH HER!"
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I understand.
But listen. This is important information that you're going to need soon anyway.
And let's be honest - when you DO start sleeping with women - wouldn't you rather have the CHOICE to see them again or not?
That's what I thought.
Neil Strauss The Game
Neil Strauss' story is a typically American one. In fact, it has Hollywood written all over it. Interestingly, though, it's very much real: Guy who can't get any girls, goes to seminars about how to get girls, meets relationship gurus, becomes most famous one himself, gets more girls than he can count.
Not bad, huh? This is a guy who learned directly from the man Marie-Claire called "The World's Greatest Pickup Artist," Mystery, and now gives HIM tips on how to pick up women! On top of that, the guy has interviewed some of the top musical acts: Motley Crue, Marilyn Manson, Dave Navarro, Britney Spears. Heck, he even got Spears' phone number! (But never called her.) He's written books, including the #1 international bestseller, The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists. Overall, not a bad resume for a guy who's only in his thirties.
So who is Neil Strauss? Right now he's considered the #1 pickup artist in the world. He goes by the self-selected pseudonym of "Style", and anyone who is even remotely familiar with the seduction community will tell you who Style is. In the world of mPUAs (Master Pick-up Artists to the uninitiated), he is inspiration to millions of horny guys across the globe....and hope for many more.
Currently Neil continues his role at the forefront of the seduction community. Towards the end of 2005, Style decided that he would pass the creme de la creme of seduction knowledge to five selected followers at a three-day seminar at his California home.
In 2006, he promoted the sale of only sold 375 exclusive copies of the "Annihilation Method" program to those who arrived first on his website, . The demand was unprecedented, and cemented his role as not just a seduction guru, but also as seduction MASTER. And every guy who beckoned at his door, was his humble subject.
On May 31, 2006, Strauss spread the word through his VIP mailing list of his newfound "Stylelife Challenge." The program challenges those who have trouble with women to get a date in 31 days or less. Throughout the month of July he gave daily challenges through his Stylelife website, .
The challenges were designed to help men change their look and overcome their fears, with the ultimate goal of "winning" a date within the 31 days. The most improved guy won a prize, but the prize for Mr. Strauss is very clear: increased exposure, more followers, and being cemented as the indisputable leader of the seduction community.
Not bad for a guy who once couldn't get any woman, eh?
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