Does that ever happen to you? If so, you might be caught in the perfection trap.
And I can understand that. When I wrote my first book, I wrote all the material within six months, and then did nothing with it for another twelve months!
So how do you get past this trap?
Obviously, one solution is to forget about perfection, and aim for excellence. There will always be something more to do, so you will never create the perfect product. There's always some more research to consider, another Web site to visit, another case study to add, a new principle to explore, and so on.
However, sometimes that's easier said than done! It's hard to let go of your product, knowing that it could be better.
There's a better way!
Instead of struggling with your beliefs and behaviours around perfection, here's another option: Publish it in bits and pieces.
Do you have a half-written book sitting in a Word document? Or some notes that you've written on a scrap of paper? Or an idea that you jotted down for use in a future product? Publish it!
For example, if it's a half-written book, take an extract and publish it your e-mail newsletter ...
Or add it as an article on your Web site ...
Or take an idea and add it to your blog ...
Or use it as a handout at your next presentation ...
Or put it on your letterhead and fax it to your top 20 clients ...
Or ...
Well, you get the idea ...
So what?
This approach has a number of benefits:
• You'll feel more productive, because you really are publishing something.
• You add value immediately to clients, colleagues and prospects.
• They are more likely to refer you to others, or engage you themselves.
• You get valuable feedback from readers about your material.
Best of all, you don't have to go through years of personal development to overcome your perfection issues! Even if you never finish the perfect product, you'll be surprised just how much of it is already out there, working for you.
Nobodys Perfect Hannah Montana
During his or her career, every trader has executed a trade under extreme pressure. Face it - at times, its the nature of the job. Working under these circumstances can have dire consequences; you run the risk of losing your focus, questioning your plan, or hesitating at a critical moment. And when it happens, it can cause you to sink even deeper into a bad mood. Not surprisingly, your next trade doesnt go much better than the first. When you are in a bad mood - however you define it - your decisiveness and focus are impacted. The better your mood, the more earnestly youll trade.
In fact, a bad mood - and the fear that mistakes are detrimental - can lead to a syndrome called extreme perfectionism, as was proven in a 2005 experiment by psychologists Benie MacDonald and Graham Davey. A group of college students induced into bad and good moods and then asked to identify 100 spelling and punctuation errors in a document. Some were told that if they made a mistake, they would be punished, while other groups were told that mistakes had no consequences whatsoever.
Not surprisingly, the participants who were in a bad mood and were told they would be punished for mistakes spent an extraordinary amount of time obsessively checking and rechecking their work. Why? Well, according to MacDonald and Davey, they allowed their mood to dictate their behavior. In other words, they spent too much time on unnecessary work, and never felt satisfied.
Certainly, this experiment points out how a bad mood can lead to self-doubt, loss of confidence and unrealistic expectations. Extreme perfectionism can cause your trading plan to fall flat on its face. Youll question its viability and whether you are accurately analyzing current market conditions.
S When you find yourself in a bad mood, dont ignore it. It will cause you to think and act irrationally, and that can be a disaster for a trader. Either avoid trading while in a bad mood or dont let your mood guide your actions. If you are aware of the psychological mechanisms that influence your decision-making, you can overcome them. Dont underestimate the power of your mood!
There are plenty of traders out there who are failing at the moment. Many of those traders will end up quitting on themselves when their accounts start to get too low or they feel they have invested too much time. Alternatively, there are plenty of traders out there who just want to give it another go, who believe that if they keep applying the skills, they can eventually master them.
The biggest difference between someone who keeps on going and learning and trying and those who give in and give up is faith. Those with a great deal of self believe and the faith that if just one other person in the world can do it, so can they are the ones who end up making a good living trading. Those who decided it couldnt be done are missing out on the fact that there are enough people doing it to prove that is not the case.
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