Here's an idea that may seem a little esoteric, a little woo woo, a little California, but put that aside for a moment and trust that I'm not leading you down the path to woo woo.
Hypothetically, imagine that all things in the universe vibrate. Everything. Imagine your prospect vibrating. What is the speed at which they are vibrating? What is the speed at which you are vibrating? Mesh those two, so you vibrate at their speed. That's pacing.
Once the two vibrations are combined, you can then move them up or down, vibrating faster or slower, wherever you want them. This is 'leading'.
Is this a construct in your mind? Absolutely. Does that mean it doesn't really happen? Not necessarily. It simply means that you don't actually have to feel it; in fact, you're probably not going to feel it, but just build a model in your mind. Can you adjust it? You bet. And that's what I'm going to suggest that you do.
A good way to do this is to look at the whole person as the vibration, then pay attention to anything rhythmical they are doing. Are they swaying? Are they moving something rhythmically? Tapping a pen, shaking their leg?
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Where is the rhythm located in that person? Where do you perceive the rhythm to be centered? High in their body? Low in their body? Where do you see this rhythm taking place?
My point is that you simply need to be open to seeing (or hearing) this and know that you have the ability to use it in persuasion.
If I were to say to you, 'Close your eyes and take a deep breath', your rhythm would probably begin to slow down.
Your vibrations probably began to slow because your first assumption was altered state. Notice how your vibration changed with your assumption changing. Your presupposition changed. You changed.
Now simply imagine your vibration increasing, moving faster, faster, speeding up.
If you pay attention, you can tell what direction the energy is traveling. Is it going around in circles, up and down, or back and forth?
Now move faster. Expand it.
How does it feel when you speed up? What difference do you feel vibrating fast and vibrating slow?
In knowing that difference, you can begin to adjust to your affluent prospects in any given situation. By doing this, you gain a deeper rapport in addition to being able to get them to go where you want.
Ode To Joy Full
To the ones who made something we dreamed of, but never dared try ourselves.
To the ones who endured the ridicule of others for the sake of their own dream then decided to share their ideas with the rest of the world.
To the ones who spent sleepless nights coming up with solutions instead of contemplating the sheer force of the problems they faced.
To the ones who never gave up when that was always the easiest option.
To the ones who could envision a day when there would be satisfied customers at the end of this leg of the journey.
To the ones who discovered there was a thin line between a foolish dream and common sense.
To the ones who didn't care what others thought, only what they somehow knew to be true.
To the ones who refused to say ?I told you so? even when they could have.
You, brave soldiers of entrepreneurialism, are heroes and destiny changers. You are doing what most cannot.
You see here are the valiant men and women who produce the goods, polish the ideas and sell the services that make our lives easier and more fulfilled. They have captured an elusive bug known as entrepreneurialism and it infected every aspect of their life view. They wish others understood, but they'll walk the road to success alone if they need to.
These are the hearty souls who get distracted at lunch and figure out how to take the next step by simply doodling on a restaurant napkin ? then frame it when the dream comes true.
These individuals may not care much for a dress code, standard work hours or common themes of success. They care more about taking the things they care most about in life and seeing where they can go when infused with the ability to dream. Often these individuals invite the rest of us mere mortals to come to their proverbial tent in the center of town for a delightful game of show and tell.
Entrepreneurs are leaders and they rarely follow. They march to the beat of a drummer only they can hear and the simple joy of following a dream make them kindred spirits with Caractacus Potts from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, Professor Julius Kelp from The Nutty Professor or Professor Philip Brainard from Flubber.
Yes, they may appear to be absentminded at times, but these entrepreneurs have seen the future and they are mightily distracted on the way to getting there.
Entrepreneurs are the misunderstood and often made fun of, but there comes a point when their genius is evident to all. Don't be surprised if they refuse to hold a grudge or point out how right they may have been.
Why?
They are probably still looking down the road and envisioning something that may well take them in a new direction.
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