Have you tried online dating yet? If not, its time you began to use this wonderful service. More so if you are newly single, divorced or lead a busy life and have no time for dating in real life. Online dating is fun, easy and the best of all, it’s all about being your self. No dressing up, no make up and no artificiality.



It’s important to know that you really do not know who you are talking to or the real motives of the people you meet online. Therefore, I believe it’s important to be careful and follow set protocol for your own well-being. So without further ado, below is the list of dos and don’ts which need to be adhered to at all times for your own security and safety.

1. Your geographical location: Never give your exact address during the first meeting. Just mention the name of your region.

2. Never share your phone number: The most important thing to remember is, to never give out your phone number. You must be aware of the fact that people are strange and having someone threaten you or scare you will cause more problems. If you want to talk on a phone, call from a pay phone near your house or arrange a time when you can be by the pay phone.

3. Think before putting your picture on the net: It is a good idea to upload your picture to let prospective dates look at you. However, think hard before you put your picture up. There are some websites like www.TheSinglesNetwork.com which screen the profiles of people before granting them membership on the website. For these websites, your safety is paramount.

4. Do not reveal personal information: This is one of the surest ways to get victimized. Do not brag about the number of house you have or the number of cars you own etc. Always limit the information you give out.

5. Your Moniker: Your nickname is the name you will use for chat. Avoid keeping names such as ‘Sexybabe’, etc as such names are suggestive and with bring you undesired attention. Spend some time thinking about your best qualities and use a nickname which embodies these special qualities.

Online dating is a blessing for all types of singles. You can meet and fall in love and be a couple in no time, or you can have some unpleasant experiences which are definitely unwanted. According to Tom Chapman, CEO, Net Content Creations, Inc, the way you behave and interact with people over the internet tends to determine the kind of people you will attract through these online dating networks.

The key to find the right partner is to be is to be confident and honest. Do not short sell yourself. Maintain your self-esteem and do not tell white lies. Sharing relevant and limited information shall ensure that you do not attract unwanted attention. Communication is vital for initiating a relationship over the net and for this you shall need to be open and patient. Do not except immediate results. Remember, honesty begets honesty and the path to lasting happiness begins with small steps.