Some women think that they can enjoy dating with experiencing any form of guilt. They set strict rules about dating and the dating that requires overnight stays. Some overnight dates can lead to tragedy when the person that sleeps overnight turns out to be a serial killer or a mental patient that is off their medication.



People really do not know the people that they choose to sleep with but find out later that they wished they had picked someone else at the bar they were in. They might have talked for hours on end with the individual before alcohol consumption made the decision for them that an overnight date was going to happen. The person might have shown some affection in the bar, and later regretted the depth of affection at home because they know that it went too far.

Some women are tricked into overnight dating scenarios that turned into tragedy. They visited a night club with friends and found several men that they thought would be suitable for dating purposes. While dancing with one man in the group of four, the other three took care of adding a date rape drug to the female's drink. After one or two drinks, the woman might have passed out and been raped continuously until someone wised up and called the police and said that their friend was missing.

Some dates do not go to that extreme but can cause significant injuries without any type of physical action necessary. Women who search for dates are willing to commit and give their heart to the first soul that lies in wait just for them. After their affection is deeply rooted, the real character of the man comes out and the woman finds out that the man was only dating her to have sex.

The mental cruelty that comes from overnight dating can lead to tragedy because some women are not equipped to deal with such emotional occurrences. Some women will begin thinking life is not worth living just because a guy broke off a date with them at the last moment but had time to add a few comments. He might have been vague on when he would stop by again or that he expected to be busy for an undetermined time.

This is why some women have totally stopped dating. The pain and aggravation is simply not worth it to them. Without dating on the schedule several times of the week, they have found that they have more time to read books, collect unusual art and spend some extra special time with children if they had them.

The thought of overnight dating might crop up occasionally just as an urge but not an urgent need and the person learns to deal with the loneliness but might actually start enjoying the serenity of being alone and not having to answer questions that they do not want to answer anymore.