Whatever your reasons for moving to Spain, the way of life is totally different and for some, it comes as a real culture shock. You have to learn new currencies and languages, and you miss your friends, family and all that is familiar. Many will go through a transition period, which may last up to two years, before they can truly decide whether they can 'fit in', or should give up and go home. For these reasons, buying a permanent home in Spain is a double edged sword. Not only is it imperative to choose the right location, but you also need to be sure that making the move is right for you.

Where to buy your home in Spain is an important issue which should be carefully considered before purchase - if you make the wrong decision it can be costly, bearing in mind reselling and re-purchasing costs. Any profits made on a quick sale will be handed straight over to the tax man! Many people have a vision of living in the 'real Spain' amongst the Spanish and away from tourist resorts. Although there are those who have done it, and wouldn't live any other way - is it for you? There is great community spirit in small Spanish Pueblos (villages) - but you will need to live the Spanish way, and speak the language. You are unlikely to be accepted if you insist on going into the bar and asking for 'a large beer please mate', but even if your Spanish is poor, you will gain brownie points with the locals for trying!

The advantage of buying your permanent home on an urbanization where there are other expats, is that you will be mixing with other people in the same situation as yourself, with facilities on hand, and general maintenance of the property and gardens undertaken by the community (although you will be required to pay a yearly fee for this). However, if the community do not agree on matters, problems can arise and it is wise to check the community rules before purchase.

There are those who may prefer to buy their permanent home in Spain in the mountains, or a rural retreat in the countryside, but you may not have running water or electricity and the romantic notion of country living can soon turn into a nightmare. Many people can live with fresh water wells and generators - but it's not for everyone. If you like your 'home comforts' and prefer to turning on a switch or a tap, think carefully before entering into the purchase of a remote country villa. True country living can come as a bit of a shock to ex 'townies' who may fare better on an urbanisation with bars, restaurants and shops within walking distance - especially for those who don't drive.

Spain can be a lonely place if you don't choose the right environment for you. It is totally different from buying a holiday pad in which you may spend a couple of weeks a year and the old adage 'location, location, location' will probably never be of more importance than when buying a permanent home in Spain.