The only way to make progress in the outside world is to make progress on your inside world.



If you learn how to ask the right questions, you will all of the sudden lock in on the right answers. With that as my guide, I began asking myself questions.

What is the real make up of a human being? Where do we come from? What is our organic makeup?

Where does the subconscious mind live? It lives in the body. What then would be the influence of the body on our subconscious mind? If the subconscious mind lives within the framework of a human being, must it carry with it then the frame work of that body?

I would suggest that the answer is yes.

Our bodies carry genetic programming. DNA. This programming influences our subconscious and our thought processes and learning and our experiences. This programming shapes our worlds.

So what is more fundamental than values?

I'll tell you. There are four core drives that supersede most every other drive of a human being. The first and most important drive is the need to eat, to sustain oneself.

If you stopped eating right now and didn't ever eat again. . . your life would end. This energy consumption is about continuing on.

The converse of this is gluttony. This ceases to be about our genetic drive to simply exist and becomes a perversion of excess. . a desire for pleasure. (Obviously, overeating isn't THAT simple. There are many reasons aside from the pleasure factor.)

Last year I began to ask some hard questions. What's the difference between "needing" to eat and my drive for pleasure? I used to think about food all the time. I'd say things like, "I can't wait for dinner tonight. It's going to feel good eating the kinds of my wife cooks for me."

When someone eats for pleasure (others call it "stuffing"), it can really damage you. These hard questions made me rethink and focus on mindful and intentional eating. I persuaded myself that it is far more important to eat to survive than it is to eat for fun. Making the right choices is hard sometimes. Adding in cravings, medical conditions, genetics. . . all of this factors in and the choice became incredibly clear.

There is some research that has been done recently on why do some people when faced with huge health issues change and other people don't. The desire to eat turns into something so perverted, so infected, so unhealthy, that the concept of 'continuing on' is not even a priority anymore. (More on the other kind of perversion/desire in an upcoming article on the fourth base drive.)

For me the question became: how can I learn to eat to survive and eat as a source of nutrition, not enjoyment? This focus helped me understand that I had to begin to find joy in other things.

Coming soon: the remaining base desires of fight, flight, and reproduction and tips on how to use these impulses, urges and drives to persuade like crazy.